Before making a decision. How to make the right decision? Learn to trust inner voice

All our life is worn from a variety of solutions that we accept every minute. It happens that every second, and even unconsciously. At some moments we think about how to make a decision, to other moments, the decision is required only to fulfill any action wealthy. But one way or another, to start performing anything, you must first make a decision.

Do you know that there is a huge lot of things, and even the fateful, which can be achieved by thinking about it just one minute. Just 60 seconds of our time.

1 minute - is it a lot or a little?

Perhaps one of you will now smile, and think about yourself that this does not happen. And that serious and business people Must weigh everything for and mind ... Yes, I agree with this, although it is already coming after you have decided to act in this direction.

Suppose you have been thinking about changing work. So, sometimes, after the perekov with colleagues or a meeting with a successful classmate, which for the same time, which you achieved much more in your life. But then, it is an unclear desire under the onslaught of ordinary and daily routine completely disappears from your field of view. And once again, someday will appear incurred and the same strange will disappear.

And just need to be distracted at such a moment from all other cases, to concentrate, ask yourself some serious questions and solve now and here: how much I want to go away from this work. A particularly doubtedly doubt on a piece of paper or in his imagination, famous "plusies and minuses", (pluses - this is why I like it all and suits, the minuses are all that, because of what I can not continue to work here), Determine what more and quickly make a decision.

Yes, I know, I know. Now tell me that they will hurry, mockery people. Yes, it happens. But you must clearly understand that almost any solution can be taken as a minute. Almost any. It is clear that not all. Here, too, the mind must be included.

Well, here is a nontrivial desire, how to become a millionaire, you see, you can take a minute? No, I heard in the comments ... Again with you, just about it can be read in very exciting and an interesting book Mark Viktor Hansen and Robert Allen "Millionaire per minute." Book of business, I think many will be interested to read it. The authors assure that it is possible to make a decision to become a millionaire for a minute. All that follows the decision to make a decision no longer belongs. Agree?

And in our, quite a common example of a desire to change the work, just did not find that minute of time to stay for a minute and take correct solution. You know, I also had such life situations when the decision matured for a long time, but I did not decide because more Plusikov to accept the solution that I needed. Until that moment when the minuses became greater. Most likely, this is normal, but it is possible that if I acted faster, I would not miss as many opportunities.

Secret of successful people

You know the secret successful peopleAnd why are they in their lives much more efficiently many of us? They just have time to do more during the same time. And do not just have time to do more, but manage to do more the main things. This is such a simple secret. If you agree with you, and every day to do one main thing more than in the previous, I assure our personal effectiveness will increase at times in a short time.

So the next day we will have to spend more than one minute to make a decision, but two, since we should also be alone, but two. It is clear that no one forces it to bring to infinity, yet all of our business should be brought to a logical result. But if it is reasonable to approach this moment, then the main things will appear independently of our participation with enviable regularity.

Most importantly: how to make a decision

And here I will give some more interesting considerations about how to make a choice.

heads or tails

You go along the seafront and notice half-sticking bottle of bizarre form sticking out of the sand.
You raise and open it.
A light fog comes from the bottle, which turns into a fabulous genie.
Unlike other jinnings, this one does not offer to fulfill three of your desires.
He gives you the right to choose.
Option One:
You will receive five additional years of life, provided that the life of another person chosen at random will decline for five years.
Do you want to extend your life on such conditions?
Option Second:
You can get twenty thousand dollars if you agree to apply a tattoo with a dollar bill.
Do you take this money?
If so, what place will you apply a tattoo and what to choose a picture?
Option Three:
When you wake up tomorrow morning, you can purchase a new quality or skill.
What do you choose?

Not bad test. And how many alternatives appear in our life when you can not decide how to do in this situation. Specialists advise to develop their own emballation system of options, which is based on many factors: logic, mind, practical experience, emotions, feelings.

From how actively we participate at the time of decision, the level of our intellectual form depends. That is why it is important to learn how to choose correctly. Not in vain say: "You are what you choose." By the way, this statement belongs to the management consultant John Arnold. The saying was very quickly aphorism.

What needs to be done to make a decision?

Let us dwell on a minute, and learn the most important thing that will help us learn how to make a decision correctly:

1. These are capital truths, my friends. I'm sure you know it all. In fact, you all know it, just do not apply. Just the problem is that you still need to do. And if you do unusual things, it means that you need to leave your comfort zone. But this is uncomfortable. Truth? therefore we begin and leave the comfort zone.

If you do not know where you go, it doesn't matter what the way you choose.
Karamazov brothers, outstanding juggles

3. Determine the parameterswho must match our goals. It's not hard. We ask yourself only three important questions.

What do I want to get?

What do I want to avoid?

4. We are looking for an alternative solution. We try to ensure that our requirements obtained in responses to the listed questions themselves have generated alternative solutions.

5. We appreciate and check the selected solution. Here the queen is mathematics. Will have to compare the criteria, parameters, technical characteristics, risk degrees, resource size, etc.

Fast decisions are not true.
Sofokl, poet and playwright

He who thinks too much does little.
Johann Friedrich Schiller, poet and playwright

6. Present consequences We adopted solutions. The most interesting point, in my opinion. It already depends on the strength of our imagination. In no case at this stage does not need to be advised to relatives, friends and neighbors. For them, you should always stay as you are. They will refuse you ...

7. Respondent feeling their own intuition. We must try to choose proper option And take the right decision, that is, what we feel right.

8. We accept the decisionand do not fear what they did not right choice. We also need mistakes, the truth is not in large quantities. Errors are the experience that will subsequently allow us to rapidly evaluate the decision.

9. As soon as they decided, it should be understood that we will have to act in accordance with it.

I hear your perturbed replicas: And all this can be done for a minute? Well, at first, it may not be possible to have time in a minute, but over time the actions of our thought process will be brought to automatism, and make decisions much easier than now. Well, then, no one prevents you from developing your own decision making methodology, I hope that you will definitely share it with us.

Take a decision in 1 minute

For one minute you can do a lot. You can just dream or regret. You can say "I dismissed," you can say something important or give to happen to something important thanks to my silence. You can decide with whom you want to live, what do you want to do, do you like it. For one minute you can define your most important desire, and understand why it is worth living. In one minute you can read this article and find out how to make a decision.

Find those things, those cases, those tasks to begin with, the decision about which you can take only in 60 seconds. Only one minute of our time. Appreciate the time and do not do it so that then regret the missed opportunities. Let's act faster!

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Many solutions in our lives have uncertain results. What to buy: bike or subscription to the gym? Having bought a bike, you can ride when and where it wanted. By purchasing a subscription, you can do on simulators and swim in the pool. It seems everything is clear, but why is it so difficult and sometimes even painfully make a decision?

The fact is that when we make a decision, for example, with two versions, then on the one hand something is acquired, on the other, we lose. Having bought a bicycle, we will not be able to go to the pool and on the simulators. And after the purchase of a subscription, we lose the opportunity to ride in the evenings with friends by bike and get a lot of pleasure related to this.

Therefore, even when we accept the faithful, as it seems to us, the solution, then experience pain. But in many cases the problem is inflated. For example, the flour of the morning choice - tea or coffee - sudden from the finger. Both options are good. You can drink tea, forget about coffee and get a maximum of pleasure. For some, it is obvious, the other will be in doubt and spend the mental energy to choose from where it is not necessary to do it. So, why sometimes it does not matter, what decision to take? Because it does not affect the quality of life and is unlikely to negatively affect the future. If you drink tea in the morning, and not coffee, it does not matter (possible damage to coffee will be left aside).

Therefore, the first thing is to ask yourself the question: is it really something important or can you choose at random one option and not worry? Many successful businessmenwho take tens of decisions per day, know about it, so they try to remove the burden of everyday worries. They go to the same clothing, and in the morning they eat the same breakfast. The usual person brings himself to stress at the beginning of the day, because for him clothes and breakfast are of great importance. But actually it is not. Stop worrying about nonsense.

What is really important is important solutions:

• Where to go to learn?
• Which company go to work?
• What product start producing and what to refuse?
• Do I need to learn Chinese?
• Which house to buy?
• What skills to develop?

The consequences of these decisions are important. They allow you to lose or earn money, spoil or establish relationships with loved ones, lead to growth or degradation.

Find out what questions are important for you, and which are not. And then read on.

The decision-making process

1. Defining the problem, tasks or possibilities. Problem: to which dentist go treat teeth. Opportunity: What will happen more importantly in five years - knowledge of English or Chinese?
2. Creating an array possible options. You can find a few dental clinics on the Internet, and then also ask familiar.
3. Estimation of the costs and benefits associated with each option. On the one hand, even the treatment in a low-cost clinic costs a penny, on the other hand, it is still necessary to be treated, because then you will be forced to pay ten times more.
4. Choosing a solution.
5. Implement the selected solution.
6. Evaluation of the impact of the solution and change it if necessary.

Perhaps not in every case of your life you will pass through all six stages and not always consistently. But even difficulties with decision making should not arise a lot, because there are step by step algorithm. Although everything is usually not so simple in life. So what's the difficulty then?

Why sometimes make a decision so hard

Some of your solutions are so simple that you take them without thinking. But complex or ambiguous require more attention. They include:

• Uncertainty: Many facts and variables can be unknown.
• Complexity: Many interrelated factors.
• The effects of high risk: The impact of solutions to your fate and the fate of other people can be significant.
• Alternatives: various alternatives may occur, each of which has its own set of advantages, uncertainties and consequences.
• Interpersonal problems: You need to predict how other people will react to your decision.

In the head, all this swears in a second, so you do not even have time to understand why this is a tight inner feeling. One thing: than higher solutionThe longer you need to highlight the thinking.

How to learn to make decisions

Before moving on to solving specific problem issues, I need to work out general mechanism Taking suspended decisions. It consists of three parts:

1. What you focus on. What you think about, forms you as a person and changes. Many people are concentrated every day on what they cannot control. You can make decisions on the basis of what you have what you can influence.
2. Take the decision not to focus on what does not work. It sounds strange, but this is exactly what the majority comes. We are so accustomed to pass all the doubt that we do not notice how instead of working solutions first turn out of work
3. Evaluate situations. Life is changing every day, you are changing, people around and the situation as a whole. Some problems may not be problems at all.

But this is all the theory. IN real life We thoughts with specific categories and are often limited in choosing many factors. Here are some practical requirements for the process of reflection, which will allow any situation to consider more carefully and soberly.

Take a solution quickly

Yes, in this case it may not be the best. However, even bad solution Better than thinking, delaying for several days, months or years. People during this time are psychologically replaced with the fact that no decision will be taken.

Successful, great people often make decisions quickly. They know that even the greatest undertakings can destroy doubts and fears. They change and correct their plans in the course of the case, study in the process.

If you hate your work, then why not decide right now to change it? Do not change, namely, make a decision. This means that you begin to look for another job, raise your skills and cook the soil. But accepting the decision now, there is no need to pull.

Often we think about such a chain: Collection of information - Analysis - Evaluation - Information Collection - Analysis - Evaluation. And so on to infinity. Take the decision (you also know that you need to change hateful work) right now and only after that, look for information that will help in the process of realization of the planned one.

The more you expect, the more you suffer. It is perfectly understood by the importance of making a decision, but do not accept it.

Find the decision criterion

Do I need to take it? In many cases, everything is too obvious, in some - no. What are your criteria? For example:

• What is good for me.
• What is good for my loved ones.
• What will bring money.
• What will bring experience and knowledge.

After quick decision making, collect information

Again: Do not confuse and change the first and third points. If you need to study, accept the solution here and now, and only then start collecting information, search for books, tutorials are recorded on courses (all this can be made a minute later).

When the decision is made and the goal is set, collect all the necessary information, pre-put forward a condition: I will do the next an important step In this direction through so many time. For example, you decided to study english In the morning, they gave themselves for four hours to find all the necessary information, and at six o'clock in the evening they decided to call several English schools and choose for themselves the best time, distance, remoteness, etc.

Analyze past solutions

It is important to understand two things:

• Why did you take good solutions?
• Why did you take a bad solution in the past?

What happened then? What principles did you guide? Perhaps when you make solutions quickly and intuitively, they turn out to be the best in your life. Then make the same in the future.

Create a spreadsheet

It is very simple, vividly and efficiently: all your choice options on one screen with your ratings, pluses and cons. This allows you to be immersed in details or look at the overall picture - depending on the purpose.

Tony Robbins method

You can avoid possible deficiencies in making decisions when you have a system that will help crush options and anticipate weak spots. It is called OOC / EMR. This is a decision method from Tony Robbins. It applies four rules to its procession itself.

Rule first: all important or difficult solutions should be accepted on paper.

Do not do it in your head. So you end up focusing on the same things, not reaching any permission. Scrolling of thoughts creates pressure and leads to stress.

Remember yourself when the last time I took an important decision. Rather, they did not want to take it. Months and even years passed, and it was not shifted from the dead point. If you took a handle and paper, the decision could be taken in one hour.

The rule is the second: absolutely clearly understand what you need, why you want it and how it will be possible to know that you have reached it.

You must clearly understand what you want, what is the goal. Even if it is absolutely clear what exactly you want, you can forget the reasons for which you want. Why is that make sure you follow your decision. This is where it appears.

Get as much information as possible about what you want, why do you need it and how you learn when you get what you need.

Rule Third: Decisions are based on probability.

Do not wait for complete and absolute confidence. In most cases, you will never get it. So, must give it to themselves.

No one can clearly say what solutions will be consequences. Yes, you need to collect information and analyze it, but no one can give 100% warranty.

Rule Fourth: Decision making is a clarification.

In most cases, there may be several results. Find out what decision will bring the maximum benefit in all areas of your life. Sometimes the benefits arise where you could not think.

So we got to the decision-making process. Robbins calls it an intricate abbreviation OOS / EMR. It consists of the following steps:

1. Results.
2. Selection options.
3. Effects.
4. Evaluation options.
5. Reduced damage.
6. Decision.

Consider every step separately.

results

Tony Robbins begins with determining the results that it wants to achieve. He sets the following questions:

• What are the results?
• What exactly do I want to achieve?

It helps to create clarity regarding the results, as well as place them on priorities. After all, there may be a lot of them, and they can be completely different.

Robbins: "First reflections and only then - answers."

Selection options

It records all the options, even those that may seem strange. Why? Tony says that there is a principle: "One option is not a choice. Two options - dilemma. Three options - a choice. "

It does not matter if you like these some options, just write them down.

Effects

Robbins tries to find out the consequences of each of the options that he invented, and to each asks the following questions:

• What are the advantages and disadvantages of each option?
• What will I get from each option?
• What will it cost me?

Evaluation options

For each option or select Tony Robbins sets the following questions:

• What results are affected? (this is what we discussed in the first paragraph)
• How critical are the shortcomings and are the benefits on a scale from 1 to 10?
• What is the probability of 0 to 100%, that a negative or positive consequence will arise?
• What emotional benefit or consequence will arise if I choose this option?

Robbins uses this stage to eliminate some options from the list.

Reduced damage

Then he considers the consequences of disadvantages of each of the remaining options. For each Tony Robbins conducts brainstorming alternative ways elimination or reduced damage.

You can lean to one option, but at the same time know that there are cons. For this, this stage is needed: Think about how to reduce their influence.

Decision

Robbins chooses the option that ensures maximum confidence in achieving the desired results and needs based on the most likely consequences.

It offers the following steps at this stage:

1. Choose the best option.
2. Complete it so that it is guaranteed to work.
3. Decide for yourself, regardless of whether the option will work 100% or not, it will lead to victory (in this way you can stop tormenting thoughts that choosing one option, we lose another).
4. Develop a plan for implementation.
5. Take action.

Books

You are unlikely to learn how to make decisions by studying a pair of methods. This is a process in length in years. The following books will help you speed up.

• "Solving problems on special service techniques" Morgan Jones.
• "Refraction. Science to see otherwise "Bo Lotto.
• "Lie guide. Critical thinking In the era of a post office "Daniel Levitin.
• "How not to make mistakes. The power of mathematical thinking "Jordan Ellenberg.
• "Why we are mistaken. Thoughtful traps in action "Joseph Hallinan.
• "Thinking traps. How to make decisions that you will not regret "Chip Xiz and Dan Hiz.
• "The territory of delusions. What errors are committing smart people"Rolf Vobelley.
• "Proactive thinking. How simple questions may be cool to change your work and life. "John Miller.
• "Mental traps at work" Mark Gowstone.

This article sheds light only into part of such a complex process as decision making. You can learn more detailed about it on our free course "".

We make decisions all the time. Sometimes they can accumulate more than a day, and they will all have certain consequences. This means only one thing: the quality of solutions determines the quality of our life. When you achieve skill in this business, you will achieve and success in many areas. We wish you good luck!

Every day we have to take tens of decisions - to do this or that, agree or refuse.

And almost every time it is accompanied by doubts, experiences and postponement of decision.

So how take the right decision and learn to make a sure choice?

Here are 10 ways.

1 - just accepting the solution that you like.

According to statistics 7 decisions from 10 managers large companies turn out to be erroneous. 40% of companies, 20 years ago included in the list 500 best companies The world no longer exists.

Even the most successful and experienced people are mistaken very often.

Therefore, relax, the decision and start to act.

You need to understand that while you think you're standing still and losing time.

You are not a sapper for which any fatal bug.

Even if you make a mistake, you have the second, the third, but any attempts as you like. Plus, every time making something, you acquire knowledge, experience and better begin to understand how to make the right choice.

2 - determined the price of its solution.

What happens if you do this or this and the choice will be incorrect? Drink out possible options for consequences and make a decision based on this. But you should know that the solution with minimal consequences also gives weak results.

And therefore...

3 - determined the best result -what decision will move as much as possible? In life we \u200b\u200bwin those who strive for more. And those who are afraid to risk, please ordinary life. Think, maybe sometimes worth a risk. Yes, you can lose more. But after all, you can get more. And even the victims fail you can always return to another solution. So dare. Success loves bold.

4 - Ask your subconscious -most people are trying to make a solution based on logic. But its ability is limited by the amount of information that is in consciousness.

Use the subconscious. In the evening, think about your problem and solutions. And before bedtime, ask yourself - what decision to choose?

And in the morning you will be wicked with a clear understanding of what is worth doing.

In our subconscious, all our experience is laid. And we get access to it only in a dream. Plus, the subconscious can be connected to the unified information field of the Universe. Remember, Mendeleev opened its table in a dream.

So ask the question to your subconscious and go to bed. In more detail about this technique, you will learn from this video.

5 - do at least something - To make a right decision you need to have a certain information. But where to take it? Books, video, articles This is just the theory. Information you need only practical experiencewhich can only be obtained by making something.

If you doubt or choose from several options - just do something in the direction of each option. And you immediately understand what solution is better for you.

6 - Ask a more successful person -Such a person can help you literally in 5 minutes. He knows and knows how much you. Look for successful people in their surroundings. Sign up for training. Ask your question on the thematic forum or group. The only one does not need to ask everyone in a row. Listen only to those who really solved similar to your problem and has a real life experience their overcoming. But if there is no such person, then

7 - imagine yourself super hero- Put yourself to the person's place, which is a symbol of confidence and success for you. And think what a decision would choose.

Often, make a decision prevent internal fears and doubts. When you make yourself a super hero all disappears and make the decision becomes much easier.

8 - expand the number of options -Often people choose from 2-3 options. But solutions are much more options. Collect information, ask familiar, think about other solutions. Such work will allow you to better delve into the situation, will expand your consciousness and will allow you to choose the most suspension solution.

9 - let the brain decompose everything on the shelves -a modern man solves a lot on the run, on emotions, in time lack mode.

But if you take a day of rest, calm down, stop thinking a lot, then much clearers and the decision is chosen by itself.

There is a good expression in the morning of the evening wisen. So just disconnect from the problem, we do something pleasant and already on the fresh head decide.

10 - write down everything and against and compare

Choose 2-3 options and write each to a separate sheet. And make up a list of advantages and minuses. This greatly clarifies and you immediately become clear what solution is more profitable for you.

That's all.

But remember - the decision is not a solution until you start to act in accordance with it.

And so that you are easier to act here 50 step-by-step instructions

For your life, we repeatedly have to take various solutions. And often it happens that we fluctuate: to do this or otherwise?

Or do not understand how to do us ... How to be in such cases? How to behave in order not to regret your deed? In fact, there are a lot of ways to help you.

Method first. Reasoning.

It will suit people, rationally thinking who are accustomed to reason with.

Try to calculate the consequences of a particular act. It is best to write down all the pros and cons on a sheet of paper to be clearer. Suppose you suggested new jobBut you doubt, agree or not. Take a sheet, divide it into two halves and on one to write down all the advantages of the proposed position, for example, "big salary", "growth prospects", "social package", on the second - negative factors - "work is far from home", "non-corned schedule" , "Little information about this company" and so on.

Look at both half of the sheet and calculate how many advantages and cons willing you. Now highlight what is priority for you. After all, suppose, salary and career can completely compensate for some inconvenience. And it happens that the money and career is not important for you, and you want to go home early and spend your weekend with your family. This way simply helps you clearly decompose everything around the shelves, and it will be easier to take the decision finally.

The method of the second. Intuition.

Suitable to people with an intuitive type of thinking. Listen to the fact that. If you were offered a job or, say, marriage, and the offer seems to be good, but for some reason you will not take it to accept it, so maybe it's not worth it? And, on the contrary, if your mind doubts, and the heart suggests that it is exactly that if he does "on occasion"? If previously your intuitive premonitions have already been justified, then, it means that you can trust them.

The third way. Touch fate.

This is for magicious citizens. We are talking about different. Even not necessarily traditional, such as maps or I-Jing. You can just fuss: "If the next candy, which I will get from this package will be green, then I will go to this place, and if red, then will refuse the trip." The main thing is to get candy without looking.

You can "go out" and with the help of hours. Experts say that if on the dial when you look at it. There will be a "kush" - say, 11 hours 11 minutes, you may not doubt: the upcoming meeting or enterprise will be successful for you. If the two first numbers are more than two, let's say, 21 hours zero three minutes, you should not hurry with the decision-making. If, on the contrary, for example, the clock is shown 15:39, it means that the time "presses": Hurry up, so as not to miss your chance.

Now there are special balls for making decisions. Formulate the question, shake the ball and watch the answer in the window. Just remember that the ball does not predict the future, but only tells you what you have to wait and how to better go to a given situation.

Method fourth. Reading the signs of fate.

It is suitable for those who are interested in if not mysticism, then psychology and. Thinking over the decision, pay attention to what is happening around you. Suppose you are going to go somewhere, but doubt, go or not. And then suddenly the phone numbers begin to call and the requests of acquaintances are collected on you, you lose the keys to the apartment and discover that the shoe flew off ... Most likely, Providence suggests you: it's not worth going to this meeting.

Or someone offers you collaboration, and his surname is the same as the person you knew many years ago and with whom you had some unpleasant situation ... Right?

Or you plan to tour, and suddenly you, by a strange coincidence, comes across the post former client The very tour accompaniment, which with horror recalls how to enjoyed its services ...

You are asking for a large amount in debt, and here the title of notes is thrown into the eye: "Firm N went bankrupt" ...

You already have a third month in the lower back, but you do not decide whether to go to the doctor. And here, catch a fragment of someone else's conversation in the subway: "I took an ultrasound yesterday, they said - a stone in the kidney ..."

You are thinking whether to go on a date to the cavalier who invited you, and they sing on the radio: "Do not go to the meeting, do not go. He has granite pebbles in the chest. " What is not a hint?

To carry a hint of a "picture". For example, you are not sure if you should connect fate with this particular person. And suddenly you see a couple of tender swans on the pond. Or, on the contrary, we meet a couple of desperate cats on the street ... Do appropriate conclusions.

Of course, it is not literally every little thing to take for. But if the word or event has paid your attention to yourself, crashed into memory, or it seemed clearly to you that "it's all about you", which is due to your situation, that is, it makes sense to take it into account. Successful solutions!

Decisions are not easy. When you stand on a crossroads, alternative options interfere with making choices. If you follow the mind, the correct solution can be taken in minutes. After reading the article to the end, you will learn about an unusual technique that helps thousands of businessmen and people of different professions and give clear techniques that will help to understand how to make the right solutions in life.

Every moment of our life depends on the decisions that we are forced to take in one situation or another. It is important to make the right solutions, especially in those minutes when you need to give a new impetus, the direction and meaning of your life. It does not matter that it is a job or personal life, career development or domestic issues. These decisions change our life, career or relationship. Rotate all 360 degrees. Even when we do not choose, we actually make decisions. More-less.

One side, modern society The view is widely disseminated that the man is the Creator himself of his future, on the other hand - the process of choice is associated with throwing, headache and thoughts on responsibility under possible consequences. Sometimes it is very difficult to make the right choice. You can easily overcome millions of doubts that brake the decision-making process. BUT internal conflictswhich come from outside, prevent the mind to see the right path. For this reason, people are filled with fear due to possible failures and improper choice.

Those who want to immediately take their lives in their hands, command it, should take a note of several methods that will help make decisions in life.

The first step is to contact your "I". It is important to "disconnect" from various influences and influences from the outside world - to stop listening to the advice and recommendations of other people.

The heart will tell the right path. People prone to rationalization, of course, in minutes of adoption of important decisions will fight. Because most often they prefer to listen to the brain, analyze the advantages and disadvantages. Ultimately, it leads to a loss of an emotional impulse, which can revive any choice. Choose based on a rational approach, useful when it is necessary to minimize risks.

Therefore, it is important to listen to the inner voice, it makes it possible to make the right decisions. As a rule, financially secured and rich people have always come across difficult situations and choices. But they had courage and courage, taking important decisions, go against everyone, but with a smile on her face and listening to her heart.

2. Listen to intuition

In addition to the heart, there is a part of his own personality, which is called intuition.
It gives us an infinite set of ideas and information that can be used in further reflections. For example, you noticed when you meet with unfamiliar manSuddenly, you seek insight and spontaneous decision. It is important not to miss this moment here. After all, it is possible, this is the sign denoting that you go along the right path.

Even when you do not choose, you still make a choice.

"Delay the decision is in itself the decision."

Frank Barron.

Many tend to believe that refuse to make a decision - this is the choice. But in fact, making decisions and choosing, you understand that you are alive, only you are the owners of your destiny. Therefore, it is important to take responsibility, overcome uncertainty and fears and take some decision.

Even in the case when you have a fear of doing the wrong choice, in any case it is preferable to make it. This is only your own accumulated experience that will help in the future to make the right decisions.

3. Proper goal setting

In order to focus on your purpose and make decisions correctly, it is necessary to draw up and develop a plan to achieve it in advance. An excellent option and exercise to achieve its goals is Smart technology. So thoughts will fight faster, and you can make a right decision. Try to be more specific and describe all the most clearly. Thus, a clear setting of the goal, the structured plan will help you to make a decision that is fateful.

4. Create a list of priorities

Before contacting others, it is useful to try to develop a list and options for a choice in the form of a hierarchy. For example, primary needs - earn more and less significant - the proximity of the place of work. All this is important when you make a decision to quit work or change it to another.

To make a right solution, it is important to determine what things you interfere with being happy and, secondly, to implement the right strategies to eliminate barriers. And if the ultimate goal is to eliminate these external factors that interfere with us to live calmly, in this case, you need to change the way to think, act.

5. Analyze the pros and cons

As they say wise: Follow your heart. However, you should never forget about the aspects of rational choice. It is necessary to appreciate correctly possible consequences. Therefore, it is necessary to paint everything "for" - "what you will receive if you make one or another choice" and all "against". Many find such exercises very useful in finding the right solution. So you are faster to realize what obstacles and difficulties outweigh any benefits of choice and can make solutions correctly.

7. Avoid hasty in decision making

Follow the heart and intuition, does not mean making hasty decisions, guided by momentum emotions. As a rule, such adoption of such decisions are dictated not by reason, but despair, disappointment, anger or excitement. It is important to make decisions at the moments of the clutter when the mind is able to reason calmly and intelligibly.

It is still important at such moments to distinguish what really deserves your reflection and what simply buys your thoughts.

Listen to someone else's opinion, but in any case the final decision must be taken in full autonomy, a clear mind and consciousness. Whatever choice you do, it is always worth remembering that they do not define the whole course of life.

9. Machinery "Compass"

This will help the Compass technique. This technique is usually told on business and management courses. This technique will help weigh all your decisions, look at them otherwise, non-standard.

In fact, the "Compass" method is much simpler than it may seem. In order to make a decision, you must:

• Write five simple questions on paper.
• Select one of the six possible options for alternative actions.

First you need to set five questions to make the right decision.

Each time you have to take an important solution, take a sheet of paper, notepad, digital or personal diary. Write the following questions on a clean page.

1. Where are you from? It does not matter your place accommodation, registration and place of residence! Write on a white sheet: What do you do today? Who are on this moment? Where are you now. If you are at the hint of life roads - write down some solutions and possible events that could change your life.
2. What is really important for you? Write four things in a notebook that will never be forning to surrender. What kind key pointsThe turning point were in your life. What helped you in life and because of what your life will no longer be the same.
3. What makes you act and go ahead? What motivates you and for making specific solutions?
4. Who are people who are important to you? Who is able to influence the adoption of vital decisions? Who do you trust? Who makes go to feats and act, create, work?
5. What stops you? What scares in the decision that should be taken? What obstacles, situations or people interfere and keep along the path to the target goal?

Did you finish answering questions? All painted? Now go to the next item - a description of the map of concepts. To do this, we will need to highlight the keywords that characterize all your answers.

The next step is the estimate of the number of action options. You can use both the usual notebook and the Mindnode program or the MindMeister application to structuring records.
So, write six alternative paths of action, proposed models of decision making "Compass". Answers to all these questions will help make clarity and take a well-thought-out solution.

• The solution that enchants you and inspires. What decision does the greatest impact on you? Suppose, in the past for you the most important thing there were new people gained. Probably today is the right way for you. Acquaintances with new people, expanding new connections, non-nationaling, partnerships and like-minded people.
• Rational path. What do you suggest people who trust? Are they more experienced and wise?
• The path of the dreamer. This is all about life that fascinates you. This path is not the easiest. Perhaps it corresponds to your values, aspirations and beliefs, but you need to consider that you should have a motivation, and your solid beliefs will help in achieving the goals.
• The solution that can be the least common. If your days are boring, they "stupid" you and the days resemble the "Groundhog Day", then you may have to stand up on the non-traditional decision path.
• The most common solution. If you are a conservative person, for you the main customs and habit, then this option is the best for you. For example, you are a member of anyone, for example, in relationships (no matter your personal, business, partnerships), you understand that you should make a choice: to continue them or go to a new adventure. Therefore, it is important to assess our values \u200b\u200band people we love. If they do not intersect, then it may be time to disperse. This happens when it is necessary to compromise, make a choice in favor of what is really important for us when we act because of fear not to justify the expectations of a person who respect.
• Return trip. This is a kind of step back and redesign your goals. You just need to reduce the scores with the past, and then the new previously unknown road will open. For example, you decide: close the project that does not give the expected results. In this case, do we face a dilemma? On the one hand, how to quit, if we already live and breathe your loved one or two years. On the other hand, if the project does not bring results, we are forced to invest time and other resources. Therefore, when there is no sufficient motivation to continue the project, you need to carefully assess the return paths, that is, to think about closing the project being implemented.

The "Compass" technique helps take one or more options for the correct solution.

10. METHOD "SQADAT CARTAT"

The "Square Carterty" technique will allow to look at the question comprehensively and will help make a decision without focusing on one factor.

In order to make decisions on this method, you need to set four questions that can be added to the matrix for ease of perception. Questions:

1. What happens if an event occurs? ( positive sides)
2. What happens if the event does not happen? (positive sides)
3. What happens if the event happens? ( negative sides)
4. What does not happen if the event does not happen? (Negative sides, which we do not get)

Answering these questions will be easier to weigh everything for "for" and "against" and make the right decision in important moments.

11. Method "Glass of Water"

This method developed José Silva. This researcher wrote many books and studied the possibilities of managing the mind and fate, various methods visualizations and predictions.

The glass of water is based on approval that the water "writes" information. Recent studies of scientists confirm this. And since the person consists mainly of water, it is probably water can help answer some questions. So consider the method.

Before you go to bed, you need to pour into a glass clean water. Then take a glass of water in hand, close your eyes, concentrate and ask a question that requires a decision. Then drink the floor of a glass of water with small sips, pronouncing "that's all that will be needed to take the right decision." Then open your eyes, put a glass in which water remained near the bed and sleep. After waking up, you need to keep the water and thank for finding the right solution. The answer will come either immediately or unexpectedly during the day.

So, we disassembled ways of ways and methods that can be used when making important decisions.

Taking an important decision, always consider one important thing: never forget who you are and what you want from life. Choose, considering your values \u200b\u200band goals, do not give indecision and fear to deprive you something important in life! And always remember: no wrong decisions, you can always find a way to fix it! Now you are just one step from the adoption of the right decision that can be swivel in your life, so do not be afraid to make decisions!