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Hello friends! Whether a guy loves a girl is not difficult to find out, as a rule, young people are straightforward and rarely hide their feelings. The representative of the fair half is another matter, their feelings and actions sometimes do not find a logical explanation. Therefore, many guys often ask themselves: how to understand that a girl loves you, but hides her feelings? It is not difficult to understand this, it is enough just to know how a young lady in love behaves. This is what I will tell you today.

Signs of a girl's love

They can be conditionally divided into two groups: those that are amenable to external control, and those that manifest themselves at a subconscious level. Consider the first group of signs:

1. Talk.

In a conversation with the object of her adoration, the girl listens carefully, occasionally inserting remarks and nodding her head. She empathizes with all your problems and gives advice. Men can easily check the interest of a lady in person - just start an uninteresting and boring topic of conversation for her (for example, about the hadron collider), and if she listens with genuine interest, then she loves.

1. Sight.

The look of a girl can say a lot. If you caught her eye, and she looked down, she is embarrassed, which speaks of tender feelings for you. If she holds her gaze for a long time and does not tear it off, she is in love and does not hide this feeling.

1. Care.

This is especially noticeable in the relationship of the psychological type "mother - son". When a young lady is in love, she always tries to please - to feed her with a delicious dinner, cure a cold, wash her clothes, and never once reproach her for being late or scattered socks. The girl is always happy to help, not only to her beloved, but to his friends and relatives (even not very familiar ones) - it is important for her that this help will be connected with her beloved. For some ladies, this kind of help is a simple desire to please a man, and for some loving beauties, such help and caring for a loved one even brings pleasure.

1. Communication activity.

- she is looking for a reason to communicate, no matter in in social networks or live. A loving girl is ready to write SMS every day and all day, in SMS she often uses emoticons, exclamation marks, dots. A girl can make appointments herself or come to your house - it all depends on upbringing, such activity is already proof of love.

1. Reliability.

A loving girl is the most faithful and reliable friend. She easily says goodbye to everyone and friends and devotes herself only to her beloved. If in life men do not come better times, she will be there and go through all the difficulties with him.

Now let's talk about the "hidden" signs of love, by which you can understand that the girl loves you, but hides it.

1. Preening.

When a beloved guy appears, almost all girls begin to straighten their hair, clothes, makeup. This is especially noticeable when a young man appears unexpectedly and takes the girl by surprise.

1. Excitement.

Girls, especially those who are not experienced in dealing with the stronger sex, often “surrender” themselves with excitement. A shaky voice, a stumbling gait (especially when wearing heels), a scarlet blush on her cheeks, out of place remarks - all this indicates the tender feelings of the girl.

1. Touch.

A girl can constantly straighten a man's clothes, pat on the shoulder, take his hand, sit next to him - tactile contact and close presence for loving girls very important, it nourishes the love of the girl and makes her even stronger. You can check this yourself - try to touch the girl (to the arm, shoulder), she may be embarrassed, but your touch will be pleasant to her.

1. Jealousy.

At the beginning of a relationship, jealousy is especially revealing. A lady may not like that you pay attention to other people. At the same time, jealousy can manifest itself openly - in the form of a scandal, claims, or in a hidden form - depression, lack of mood.

1. Control.

Even at a subconscious level, some girls tend to control their object of sighing - constantly monitor updates on social networks, call, write, require a password from the page when they live together, view calls and messages on the phone.

This is the behavior of loving girls in normal situations, but there are times when girls in love can behave differently.

Other signs of a girl's love

Girls are unpredictable people, when they are controlled by a feeling of love, many people can differ in extroverted behavior. For example, a girl in love attracts the attention of a guy she likes in such ways:

• trying to offend;
• constantly gets in the way;
• trying to push, hurt;
• asks for help;
• joking, teasing;
• flirting, flirting.

Such behavior is typical of proactive girls who are the first to attract attention and express their feelings. Their behavior is easy to guess, and only a guy of a close mind will not fall for their bait.

The most difficult thing is with the girls - shy. Girls are introverts - most of all they hide their feelings, rarely show emotions, they can be silent about feelings for years, and not say that they love you. Therefore, in order to understand whether a girl loves you, you need to ask her close people - a friend, a sister. If this option does not help, you can apply some tricks that will project her attitude towards you:

• grab her thing from her hands (phone, book, purse);
• touch her (touch her hair, earrings);
• hug her at a meeting and kiss her on the cheek;
• smile at her.

If she succumbs to all provocations and reciprocates - you did everything right, she is really not indifferent to you and you can safely take care of her. Write your feedback and wishes in the comments, always yours, old womanizer Panteley.

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Women are such contradictory creatures that sometimes men spend a lot of time learning to understand them. However, many young people never succeed with the fair sex, because they are not able to recognize secret signals, signs and hints.

And yet, you can understand women by paying attention to their facial expressions, gestures, and behavior in social networks during correspondence. How to understand that a girl likes you? Watch her, recognize the signs of interest in your person and act.

You have been talking with a young lady for a long time, but you still can’t understand if she likes you as a friend or is there something more possible between you? Pay attention to her gaze, body position, and involuntary (or arbitrary) gestures.

Sight

Girlish eyes are truly a "lethal weapon". When answering the question of how to understand if a girl likes you, watch her look. If she loves you or is passionate about your persona, then you will notice the following:

• eye contact lasts longer than usual (at least 6 seconds);
• the pupils expand when the charmer looks at you;
• a classmate or company friend looks at you more often than at the people around you;
• the girl looks sideways, as if looking in the other direction (the fair sex has excellent peripheral vision).

Remember that if a young lady looks at you, this does not mean that she likes you. Sociable people prefer to make eye contact with their interlocutors. Watch how she behaves with others. If a girl is restrained with other men, and flirts with you, you were not mistaken in her look!

Hair

Playing with curls is a favorite pastime of a girl in love or flirting. In addition, being next to a man pleasant to her makes the young lady nervous, which also affects the involuntary movements of the fingers, including:

• constant touching of the hair, throwing the bangs back or blowing it off the forehead;
• winding hair around a finger, pencil or other writing utensils (for example, at school or in the office);
• throwing back hair from the neck, and at this moment the girl is trying to catch your eye.

Lips

Communicating with a cute young lady, pay more attention to her lips. To say about her sympathy, a girl does not have to say anything at all. If she likes you, then she is very likely to:

• lick lips;
• barely noticeable bite the lower lip;
• smile seductively;
• touch lips with fingers, as if wanting to check makeup.

body position

Watch the position of a girl's body during a conversation to see if a girl likes you. If she crosses her arms over her chest, does not look at you, you can make an assumption of indifference. Signs of interest and sympathy are movements such as:

• tilt and turn in your direction during a conversation;
• reducing the distance between you;
• a touch, even a fleeting one;
• pointing the toes of her shoes at you;
• arbitrary or involuntary mirroring of your actions and gestures.

However, do not forget that modest girls are often nervous, shy, so they begin to “squeeze”, and you may not find the above signs. Wait until she relaxes in your presence and let her know that you also like her.

The most important sign of a young person's sympathy for a guy is flirting. You are attractive to a girl (or even she loves you) if in your company she begins to laugh, touch you or engage in polemics. However, remembering that every woman is a bright individuality, consider the following rules:

In addition, pay attention to the changes in the appearance of the young person. If she likes you, she will try to change her wardrobe, hairstyle or makeup. However, there are girls who look almost perfect in all situations. In this case, you need to watch her for some time to notice changes in her appearance.

It should not be assumed that the changes in the appearance of a young charmer are associated with her sympathy for your person. Some girls do not consider it necessary to change their appearance, because they are self-confident and prefer to remain themselves.

To find out if a girl likes you, first of all, look at her behavior while communicating with you. A classmate at school, a young lady in a company or a colleague at work, upon contact with a pleasant young man, begins:

• listen carefully to him (and it is not so important what he says), actively maintain a conversation on almost any topic;
• smile at the guy's jokes and laugh at the jokes and funny stories he told (smart girls in love understand that even bad jokes need positive evaluation).

Interest in a guy when communicating on social networks

In this case, we will talk about how to find out by correspondence in VK and other social networks that a girl likes you. It is rather difficult to determine female sympathy from a distance. However, there are several signs that will help to make at least an approximate picture and establish how interested the interlocutor is in you.

Pay attention to such signs and features of communication by correspondence in VK, such as:

• the speed of her responses to your message (not the most accurate point, since the young lady can just be very busy);
• whether she writes to you first when you appear on the network or prefers to wait for your messages (shy girls may not write first);
• numerous likes and comments on photos, videos or music videos on your VK page;
• how detailed her messages are, whether she readily answers what words she uses (“clearly”, “yes” are considered impersonal and indifferent words);
• whether she likes to be frank with you.

To resolve all issues, force the situation. No need to ask every morning about the state of her affairs, about the weather, just offer to meet, sit in a cafe or exchange phone numbers. If she refuses, you will not waste much time on fruitless courtship.

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

There are a couple of simple but effective methods, allowing you to understand whether a certain young person has warm feelings for you. In practice, they look like this:

1. Smile at her when she looks at you. Just like that, without any ulterior motive. If a girl immediately returns your smile, you can consider this a good sign.
2. Try to cause jealousy by flirting a little with her friend or just another young lady in her presence. During flirting, carefully observe the response. The girl will definitely try to hide her irritation, but she can be given out:
   • rapid breathing;
   • drastically changed mood;
   • nervousness;
   • any attempt to get your attention.

Of course, these signs are not enough to say with "reinforced concrete" confidence that a girl likes you. Maybe, the best way out will be an invitation to her on a date, in a cafe or cinema, where you can accurately answer the question that torments you.

So, it should be recognized that young people cannot always accurately understand all the signs that the fair sex gives.

Remember that no two girls are the same. One, absolutely indifferent to you, can show almost all of the above signs of interest, the other, in love with you, will not show a single secret signal. Therefore, be patient, get to know your interlocutor better and feel with your heart whether she likes you.

Hello, I'm Nadezhda Plotnikova. Having successfully studied at SUSU as a special psychologist, she devoted several years to working with children with developmental problems and advising parents on the upbringing of children. I apply the experience gained, among other things, in the creation of psychological articles. Of course, in no case do I pretend to be the ultimate truth, but I hope that my articles will help dear readers deal with any difficulties.

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How to know if a girl loves you

How to know that a girl is seriously interested in you.

First, there are a number of signs that men perceive as "She loves me":

She is my good friend.

We have recently become very close to each other.

We are best friends since childhood.

She shares with me all the secrets and problems.

She writes to me Good night" And " good morning" everyday.

She trusts me.

And things like that.

None of these signs mean that she loves you. She may love and do something from this list, but this does not mean that these are accurate signs of love.

A girl can show all these signs, and she herself can have a boyfriend. Men often see these signs, lose control from excitement. They think that it's time to show their feelings and say: "I love you" - and thereby scare the girl away.

So what are the signs of true love:

If a girl loves you, you will know about it.

When a girl falls in love, she becomes closer to you. She does not trust and does not share her impressions with you.

Trust and secrets - clear signs friendship.

Love signs:

She is with you all the time.

She remembers every little thing you say.

When she is with you, she behaves very strangely.

Hates when you fool around when you should be serious.

Very much interested in your life.

Feels bad or jealous when you talk about other girls.

Never contradicts no matter what you say.

Regrets your mistakes.

Puts you above your friends.

These are the signs when a girl falls in love with you.

A girl always tells her friend about you

A girl always has best friend or a friend to whom she tells everything. And if she fell in love with you, that's the most important thing that happened to her. And her best friend will definitely know about it. So, one of the closest ways to find out the whole truth about a girl is to get to know her best friend.

Talk to her

If she has fallen in love with you, or at least is interested in you more than as a friend. She will talk to you about love quite normally and won't mind. But if not, then the conversation will come to a standstill. Just remember, don't talk like you usually pick up girls in bars.

How do I know if she likes me?

You know her friend. Find out which girl she trusts and ask her. Girls tell each other almost everything.

This has already been discussed above. If she is interested in you, the signals will be easy to read and this will not be a problem.

Play with hints.

“If a guy like me came up to you and offered you a drink with him, what would you say?”

I was drunk.

Just send a message saying "I love you, I want you, answer me right now" and see the reaction. If she calls you, do not pick up the phone, wait for the message. If she answers "Yes", then good sign. If he answers: “No,” say that you were drunk and mixed up the number.

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In all respects, there comes a moment when a guy wonders if a girl really loves him? This is normal, but it is often difficult for guys to find the answer to this question on their own.

How do you know if a girl loves you? Are there any characteristics, by which it will be possible to easily determine that a girl loves you?

There are, and there are a lot of these signs.

In order to see them better, you need to take a good look at your girlfriend and notice the smallest details in her behavior. In the meantime, you will look closely and remember, I will list the signs by which you can most likely understand that your girlfriend really loves you. And these are not just words, but real, great and pure love.

7 main signs by which you can tell if a girl loves you.

1. Your girlfriend trusts you completely.

This is expressed both in words and in actions. In other words, she doesn't keep any secrets from you.

Now there are many online services communications that require logins and passwords to enter. If your girlfriend easily tells you passwords from these sites, her Email and Skype with ICQ - she trusts you.

2. She tells you all about her past and also about ex boyfriends if you ask her to.

This point could be attributed to the first, but here it is a little different. The fact that she tells you about her past shows that she is not going to build another future. Future with some other guy. She only sees him with you, so she has absolutely nothing to hide.

3. She can calmly talk on the phone with you, no matter who calls her. And easily gives his phone.

This also applies to trust. If she talks without a second thought in front of you with any person who called her, know that this is a sign that she loves you. And also a sign that she does not have a lover or another contender for your place.

4. She never lies to you.

If your girlfriend always tells you the truth, then she loves you. The thing is, when we love someone, we just can't lie to them.

Remember this. If it ever turns out that your girlfriend did not go to the disco alone, while she told you that she would go alone, this is an occasion to think about your relationship. And over her feelings for you.

5. She often touches you.

Kinesthetics - terrible force. We never touch someone we don't like. But this is one thing, here it is a little different. Do you want to know if a girl loves you? Remember how she touches you.

Do you remember if she does something automatically and without thinking about it at all? For example, it can be a fleeting second stroking your head or shoulder when she comes up behind you and talks about something.

It can be anything, but it is the unconscious. Then, when she is busy with a completely different matter, and on the “machine” she does something pleasant for you.

If it is, then you are not indifferent to her.

6. The girl always talks to you affectionately.

7. She tries her best to please you.

This pleasantness can be expressed in the fact that she surprises you, dresses and preens especially for you to appreciate it.

Maybe she cooks something for you that you love the most and tries to please you.

In principle, this is the basis that will help you find out if a girl loves you. If your soulmate fully corresponds to these seven signs, you can be calm and be 100% sure that she loves you.

If, according to some signs, especially the first 4, the girl is not suitable, I would recommend that you think deeply about whether she really feels what she is telling you about.

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