Who are the Gigalo. Modern gigolos and gigolos. Wish to be younger

Sometimes you can observe the following picture: a woman of 45 years old, or maybe more, is sitting in a restaurant or just walking with a young man who cannot be more than 30 years old. The first thought that comes to mind is a mother and son who have decided to spend some time together. But suddenly the picture changes: the guy kisses his companion, and she begins to look at him with tenderness and passion. And it becomes clear that they are lovers.

This picture is not uncommon. She is a successful and rich woman who pays her man for love, sex and an escort. He is a handsome young man who receives a lot of money from his mistress. He is a gigolo.

Who are gigolos?

These are men who provide various services (and not necessarily of a sexual nature) to rich ladies for money. In other words, a gigolo is a representative of the stronger sex who sells his body.

Gigolos of the 21st century are smart and prudent men who claim that they simply keep company with their companions at various events on days when a woman is bored. They will never admit that they receive money from their mistress, assuring to the last that they have warm feelings for their lady.

Gigolo - does it mean a call boy?

A gigolo differs from a call boy in many ways:

• He provides constant services to his client, when call boys can be changed like gloves, calling different every day.
• Gigolo is a lover, friend and companion. With it you can go on vacation, visit a restaurant or go to visit friends. But with a call boy, time can only be spent in bed, in a sauna, or, in extreme cases, in a car.
• He is fully supported by his lady. A woman can call her boyfriend at any time, and he must immediately run to her.
• Gigolos sleep exclusively with rich women, while call guys can sleep with ladies of various social levels.
• A woman can be in love with her gigolo lover, but a call boy is just a toy for a couple of hours.
• Gigolos will never sell only sex. Their services they call "pleasant pastime."

You can see that from the outside, the guy is no different from an ordinary partner and life partner.

Why do women use these services?

The reason to use his services, each woman has her own:

• Communication with a young partner to increase self-esteem. A woman, being in the company of a young and attractive guy, thereby pleases herself with the thought that she is not so old. Self-esteem immediately skyrockets.
• Understand that you can still fall in love with her. Gigolo is a real strategist. He can pretend that he is crazy about his lady, although in reality he only needs money. And the woman is delighted that she can still drive someone crazy with her charm.
• Communication in order not to be lonely. Gigolo will be happy to talk heart to heart and keep company over a cup of tea or a glass of wine. These men are first-class psychologists who know what a woman needs. And a rich lady just needs to put her head on her lover's shoulder and talk about what hurts.
• Communication for sex. Why not? A woman in her 50s wants to be in bed with a real "macho" and these are normal natural needs.
• For the sake of variety. A lady can simply get bored with her husband, who is well over 50. This is where charming young men come to the rescue.

It's hard not to fall in love with such a man.

Gigolo know how to behave in a woman. They are virtuosic in the bed of love, well-bred, courteous and incredibly beautiful! Without a doubt, such a man is able to turn the head of any lady. True gigolos are also excellent psychologists. They can so skillfully and deftly powder the brains of a woman that she will firmly believe that this guy is head over heels in love with her.

Although there are cases when a young man really falls in love. This belief forces a wealthy person to give huge sums of money to her beloved. There were cases when women transferred property to their boyfriends, took out loans in their name, and all so that their beloved did not leave. A gigolo is what you need! A woman stops listening to friends and family who see the obvious - a new young lover loves money, not her. Simply put, if a lady is in love with a guy and adores him with all her heart, then she gives him considerable amounts of money without noticing it herself. The life of such a woman turns into an incomprehensible comedy. Gigolo is the director of everything that happens.

Where can it be found

It is impossible to find such guys in small towns and, especially, villages. Usually such men try to "catch a fish" in large cities. Gigolo live in Moscow. In the northern capital, they can also be found. It is easy for a rich lady to find a gigolo in St. Petersburg. Sometimes guys who want to meet a wealthy woman themselves go out and look for "prey". The lady falls in love and takes the boy to her maintenance.

There are sites where gigolos openly provide their services. Usually these are sites of foreign origin. On these Internet resources you can find photos of gigolos. Choose your favorite type. Some women may post testimonials about boys. Gigolos talk about themselves, their hobbies, and how they are ready to entertain their companion.

How much do such services cost?

The average price for gigolo services is 40 thousand rubles. It is worth noting that professionals ask for their services many times more than their independent girls colleagues. This is due to the fact that the profession of a priest of love is not so popular in our country (there are about 1000 prostitutes for one gigolo).

Why is a gigolo better than a one-night stand?

A woman can always find a guy somewhere in a club and sleep with him. But, using the services of a gigolo, she only wins:

• The young man takes care of his health. He is 100% free of any infectious diseases. Making love with such a man is safe!
• These guys take good care of their bodies. They always boast perfect abs and a sculpted torso.
• A gigolo will never threaten, blackmail or harass a woman after a breakup. He received money, and she received love and affection, there will be no claims after a break in relations;
• He guarantees that one of the client's friends and relatives will not know about his existence. It will show itself only when the woman herself asks for it.
• Gigolo will never insult his woman. He will say compliments at least around the clock, if only his companion was satisfied.

Now there are more and more men who give themselves for money, but they are quickly losing their "presentation". One has only to appear small wrinkles, gray hair or tummy, then the man immediately becomes unnecessary for rich and successful women. Moreover, gigolos, who are over 30, can no longer surprise their ladies in bed, because their "friend" can let you down at the most crucial moment.

Youth is important in this profession. Gigolos are well aware of this, so they try to get as much money from their lady as possible while there is such an opportunity.

Gigolo - a profession not too noticeable, but, as it turns out, very popular. Ladies need a gentleman, and a gentleman needs an expensive gift. But at the end of a career, every gigolo dreams of becoming a gigolo.

Do not confuse a gigolo with a gigolo and a casanova, - explains Alexander Kichaev, an elite psychologist for elite gigolos and their elite clients.

In general, a prostitute, - I insert.
- Do not confuse! Alexander intervenes. - A prostitute is bought exclusively for sex and at a fixed price. And the gigolo has no fee for sex services.
- And what about the gifts?
- Gigolo really accepts expensive gifts from his clients, and that's how he lives. But! He never asks for gratitude in plain text.
- In what way does he demand it?
- Gigolo is fluent in the art of tactful hints. For example, wanting to receive an expensive watch as a gift, he is late for a date, and then ardently apologizes: “I was late because my watch broke and I don’t have others ...”
- But such a trick is easy to miscalculate! The hint is more than transparent!
- That's the way it should be. She understands what he is hinting at, and he knows that she understands it.
- Why then all these games?
- That's exactly what games are! The game creates the illusion of pure, untouched by money relationships. Because the relationship "money - love - money" is not the one that a woman aspires to. She prefers to believe that the man is next to her not for self-interest, so she enthusiastically joins the game. And in no case should the gigolo destroy this illusion.

And where is she - the ultimate goal of the gigolo?
- The last stage of his career is his own business, donated by a rich client, or marriage to her.
- Are you saying that the ultimate goal of a gigolo is to be reborn as a gigolo?
- At the end of a career, every gigolo dreams of becoming a gigolo.

Difficulties of the profession

Most often, a sultry macho becomes a role model. But romantic heroes in our realities are not in demand. The heart in armor is the main attribute of his profession. He is a gigolo, to conquer and seduce is his job.

Clothing is his uniform. He is obliged to follow the latest fashion trends and know the names of its leading houses by heart. Only in these brands he is prescribed to dress. There is a saying in the gigolo world: “The more expensive the package, the more they will pay for you.” A woman should not be ashamed to appear with him in society.

Gigolo is well versed in the brands of cars and equipment and can estimate the price of a car, a mobile phone or a client’s watch by eye. This helps him accurately determine her social status and eliminates the risk of contacting an insolvent client. He learns about the latest in the auto industry and technology from expensive glossy magazines. In addition, the gigolo is always up to date with the latest cultural news. He actively watches new films, reads books that are fashionable this season, and visits exhibitions.

Elite Sergey

From Alexander's office, I went to Tverskaya, where in an Italian restaurant I had an appointment with one of the psychologist's clients, the elite gigolo Sergei.

On the way, I set myself up in a sympathetic mood, vividly imagining the horrors that pushed Sergei to such an undignified profession. He had nothing to eat, I decided - and dismissed this option as not compassionate enough. His mother fell ill and she needed an expensive operation ... No, in fact, everything was much worse: his father left for another, his mother fell ill and died, and Sergey was left with two, no, better three brothers and sisters. Having become a gigolo, he sacrificed himself - he refused education, personal aspirations ... Having settled on the last option, I entered the restaurant ready to show understanding and sympathy. None of the patrons scattered around the tables looked like a gigolo. I began to call Sergei on the mobile phone. “I am sitting behind a column. Go there. I see you," the receiver answered. “Disguised,” I thought, and went behind the column.

Sergei was just from the barbershop. With manicured fingers, he played with an obviously expensive, but not identified by me, model of the phone.

Did you have dinner? Sergey smiled sweetly.

In response to his smile, I ordered a shrimp linguine. Sergey repeated my order, adding espresso coffee and ice cream to it. Putting the recorder on the table, I got ready to “pull snot” from Sergei’s biography.

So, how did I become a gigolo ... - Sergey leaned back in his chair. - It seems that then I had already graduated from the institute ...
- How did you graduate from the institute? I jumped up in my chair. - You didn't have money for education!
- Who told you that? Sergei was surprised. - I graduated from the Pedagogical Institute in Rostov with a degree in psychology.

Kichaev's words came to mind: “Most gigolos have a profession. As a rule, they work as psychologists, fitness instructors, extreme driving or equestrian sports instructors, ballroom dance teachers. Being unemployed harms the gigolo in the eyes of society. In addition, the woman herself prefers not to become the only source of income for the gigolo: having a profession creates the illusion of a relationship based not on money, but on mutual attraction.

So, you are a psychologist… Why did you choose this specialty? Did you follow in the footsteps of your parents? - so I wanted to bring the conversation to a sick mother and a traitor father.
- Not really, - Sergey smiled again and looked into my eyes affectionately. - My parents are doctors: father is a surgeon, mother is a speech therapist.
What about your brothers and sisters?
- I am the only child in the family ... Once I watched a movie in the cinema - I don’t remember what it was called, but the main character is a gigolo. It was somewhere at the end of the fifth year ... In general, I was already thinking about my future then. Thought what to do? Psychology is not a profitable business, and I was looking for my niche. After watching the film, I realized - this is it, my vocation.

Because she knew what I was capable of in bed, - Sergey grinned, pleased with himself, and looked at me promisingly. - The second lady recommended me to the third, and gradually I began to acquire connections. In the end, one of the rich clients lured me to Moscow with her and organized a job in a prosperous company ...

Do you keep in touch with your former clients?
- Only those who are useful. For example, I did not have enough money to buy a country house - I called a former client and asked for a couple of tens of thousands of dollars in a loan.
- And she did?
- Certainly. This amount is a trifle for her.
- But your relationship is in the past. She already paid for them, right?
- No not like this. I served her for two months and did not take anything in return. But she knew that someday I would call her and voice my request.
- Of course, you did not return the debt, did you?
- Of course...

So, it wasn’t need that made you… choose such a… original profession?
- Need? I never felt the need! What do you find shameful in my profession? Being a gigolo is hard work. I honestly earn money.
- Sorry, but it seemed to me that the gigolo was on the content ...
- Maintained? - Sergei leaned forward, but quickly pulled himself together and smiled broadly again. - Do you know how much I have to plow for this content? Do you think satisfying older women is the height of pleasure?
- How do you satisfy them? Accompany in society or provide sexual services?

I do both.
- How often do you have to deal with "other"?
- Three or four times a week.

So you said that sex with older women does not bring you pleasure ... How do you manage to get excited and demonstrate everything that you are capable of in bed? Maybe you close your eyes and imagine yourself with… Angelina Jolie or… your girlfriend?
- What nonsense! I have no favorite girls! - an aggressive note was heard in the gigolo's voice, but he quickly regained his composure and almost purred.

Are you aware of the existence of Viagra? - asked Sergei.
- Aren't you afraid to use it so often - three or four times a week? Its effect on health is not yet fully understood ...
Our service is both dangerous and difficult. Once I fall short of the mark once, the news of my failure will spread throughout the community in which I move. I will be without clients. One failure, and that's it - the reputation is ruined.

Did your clients fall in love with you?
- It was the case. Often they did not want to let go, they offered to live together. I remember there was one such lady... She exhausted me with her calls and harassment. She assured me that she could not live without me, cut her veins. For a whole month I patiently listened to it, and then sent it.

You somehow angrily react to the word "love" and the phrase "beloved girl." You don't have a girlfriend?
- Love is a fairy tale for ninth graders.
- What are you?! Never loved?
- Women interest me only as an opportunity to gain financial benefits ...

If a woman wants to be satisfied, she must pay for it, - Sergei smiled at me again.
- Sergey, why are you constantly smiling at me? I annoy you with my questions.
"I smile at you because I like you," he smiled again. With one mouth. And Kichaev’s voice sounded in his ears again: “A high-class gigolo is distinguished by the ability to master facial expressions and body language. Knowledge of body language allows him to read the client's reaction to his actions and words, even from the slight movement of her facial muscles.

Can you like someone?
- Why not? I prefer young women.
- Would you agree to serve a young woman for free?
- I didn't think about it.
“Would you agree to support this young woman?”
Why should I keep her?
- And she will satisfy you ...
- Yes, I can be satisfied without it, I’ll also get money for it! And you know what?! I don’t see sales women, - Sergey rapped out every syllable of the last phrase.

And who are you yourself? I freaked out.

Sergei flared his nostrils. We glared at each other over our plates of linguine. A titanic effort - and Sergey pulled himself together: a friendly expression froze on his face like a mask.

Do you have more questions? Time is running out…
- Yes! Judging by your hair and manicure, you just got out of the barbershop. How often do you visit there?
- Two times a week.
- Wow!
- And in your opinion, I should walk around with gnawed nails and an explosion on my head, - Sergey kept a meaningful look at my disheveled hair and somehow trimmed nails. - I think if a woman goes to meet a man, she should at least put her head in order ... Don't you think? he smiled slyly.

I choked with rage. Wow interview - in front of me sits a burnt cynic, a complete egoist and teaches me good manners!

You see, if I went to a meeting with a man, I would take the trouble to put my head and nails in order ... - I emphasized the word "man".

Sergei turned purple.

It's all? he asked haughtily.
- I would also like to know if you love anyone?
- Certainly. I love myself.
- Will you ever have children?
- I have got a son. He was born back in Rostov, when I was in my second year at the institute.
- What about his mother?
- We broke up. Relationships have outlived their usefulness.
- How often do you see your son?
- I'm sending him money.

Do you want him to become a gigolo someday too?
- Your problem is that you can not understand in any way: I do not consider the gigolo a shameful profession. I am proud of my work, it brings me a lot of money. Do you know how much my shoes cost? Two thousand dollars. Did you see the black jeep at the entrance? He's mine. Could I have earned all this, as you put it, by honest work? Until old age, I would sit as a psychologist in some scruffy Rostov school or clinic. Women buy us. They know we're gigolos and they're fine with that! Shame and disgrace - I am on the content of a woman! But why does society not condemn those women who are supported by men?

Because a man is a representative of the stronger sex. Because he is a provider and protector. And so it has been throughout human history.
- Now you will tell me that a man should pay for a lady ...
- Do you pay for your ladies - at least for averting your eyes?
- Never! She invited me, she pays. And if I come, let them take the trouble to take me back.
- Do you dream of anything?
- Yes, I dream of getting my own business as a gift.

Perhaps that's all, - I turned off the recorder and got up from the table. - Thanks for the interesting conversation.
“Wait,” Sergey called out to me. - Aren't you going to pay for dinner?
"No," I smiled sweetly.

What, you don't have any money? the gigolo bristled.
Yes, but I won't pay. I want you to feel like a man at least once in your life.

According to "Expert"

Zhigalo is not the kind of man a woman wants to date. Relations with him are doomed to failure and financial collapse, and some girls are still left with broken hearts. Who is a gigolo, how to recognize him and how to protect himself from his charm and seduction?

Who is Gigalo

Gigalos were originally a name given to a dance partner who was paid for his company. Over time, the concept has outgrown its original meaning, and today a gigolo is a man who provides sexual services for money and keeps a woman company.

Zhigalo and gigolo - the same thing?

What is the difference between gigolo and gigolo? It would seem that these words denote a man who sells himself and his time, however:

1. Zhigalo is a man who is paid for sex. Meetings with them may not be one-time, but he rarely becomes a permanent partner.
2. Gigolo- This is a man who is fully supported by his mistress.

Zhigalo as a profession

Zhigalo become not only from hopelessness and poverty. As a rule, a gigolo is a young man with a higher education who takes care of himself and does not want to provide for himself.

There are both pluses and minuses in the profession of a gigolo. The pluses include the money that gigolos receive from clients. But more cons:

1. Zhigalo put up with the fact that their services are mainly used by women of age, with complexes or not very beautiful.
2. Zhigalo can be ordered not only by single girls, but also by homosexuals and married couples.
3. Alphonse has to be not only a hero-lover, but also a psychologist. He must catch the slightest change in the mood of his client.
4. A man has to take Viagra and similar drugs to satisfy the desires of the client.
5. Zhigalo is a profession for the young. If a man has not saved up by the age of 35, then he is likely to live in poverty.

Zhigalo as a way of life

Zhigalos are of two types:

• active;
• passive.

Active gigolos perceive their activity as a profession, they live off their clients and try to remain interesting for them.

Zhigalo is an infantile and lazy man, especially if the gigolo is "passive".

He does not know how or does not want to earn on his own. To sit "on the neck" of his wife for him becomes the easiest way out of poverty and everyday problems.

Types of male gigolos

Each of the gigolos is extremely ambitious, but each has its own understanding of the "profession". In this regard, there are 4 types of gigolos.

Domestic

In the traditional view, such a man does not look like a gigolo at all: he can have a bald head, a beer belly and walk in stretched pants. He has "poor health" and many inhibitions that prevent him from finding a job. Usually in such families, a woman has several jobs, cleans, cooks. Gigolo, on the other hand, watches TV and shuns any activity.

In order not to release their victim, such men from time to time say compliments, show tender feelings. And it works: in the hands of such gigolos there are women who are sorely lacking in love and at least a drop of care.

seducer

Alphonse of this type is always handsome, charming and cheerful. Next to him, a woman feels needed, while realizing how lucky she was to meet such a young man. He instantly gains confidence. The seducer is looking for a rich woman who will give him money. His wallet is constantly forgotten at home, then it ends up in the hands of robbers. The man doesn't spend a dime.

From time to time, the seducer has various problems, from an incurable disease to problems with relatives. All these stories are designed to extract as much money from a woman as possible. Fortunately, getting rid of a seducer is very easy.

As soon as the woman stops giving him money, the gigolo instantly evaporates.

Professional

The professional treats himself as a commodity, and in order to increase his value he:

It is pleasant to talk with such a gigolo, he does not try to extract money from a woman. A professional will accurately name the amount for which he is ready to sell himself and his time. And he is not at all embarrassed by why they buy it.

Internet user

The danger of Internet gigolos lies in the fact that they are almost impossible to catch. They can threaten for a long time, forcing a woman to give large sums, until she is completely bankrupt.

Characteristic demeanor for male gigolos

If a woman has doubts about her partner, then she may try to identify him as a gigolo. To do this, you need to carefully analyze the behavior of a man.
Almost every gigolo exhibits at least two of the traits listed below.

The complete absence or minimal investment in a woman with the active consumption of her resources

This is the most important feature by which Alphonse can be identified. The main motive of the Gigalo is money. AND such a man will avoid spending by any means, trying to make a woman pay for herself.

It can reach the point of absurdity and outright lies. For example, in order not to pay the bill in a restaurant, Gigalo may say that he lost his wallet. Then, in a magical way, there will be a wallet, but only when there are no expenses ahead.

Excessive attention and courtesy

To ingratiate himself with a woman, the gigolo needs to be charming and pretty. To speed up the "addiction" of the victim, he can become courteous and give her a lot of attention. Zhigalo is a charming and pleasant man. Women who lack affection and warmth quickly let him into their lives. This is not surprising: the gigolo carefully chooses those from whom he will draw money.

Lack of interest in women's issues

Having won the trust of his victim, the gigolo quickly cools down and ceases to be interested in it. He continues to give compliments and witty jokes, but does not try to show a deeper interest.

All attempts to complain on the part of the woman are stopped. Usually in such situations, the gigolo begins to talk about his own problems, which are certainly greater than those of his victim. Impressed by the difficulties of her partner, the woman tries to support the "poor thing", most often financially.

Sudden pop-up misfortunes and troubles

Zhigalo will try to live off his victim. He may also make explicit allusions to the gifts and favors he wants to receive. If this does not help, then the gigolo may suddenly have problems at work or show up old debts. Since they usually do not talk about their family, the only savior is his victim.

Gigolo men constantly have various troubles.

Only she, according to the words of Alphonse, can help him with money and help out in a difficult period. Misfortune will pour, as from a cornucopia, as long as a woman has money. As soon as they end - and the problems disappear with the man.

Lack of a holistic picture of the personality and life of a male Alphonse

Zhigalo will not disclose personal information about himself. His victim learns that Alphonse loves what to give him and what brands of cars he prefers, but he will not be able to tell if the man had brothers and sisters.

Due to the feigned behavior of the gigolo, it becomes difficult to form a picture of his personality. A man will be equally pleasant in bed, and if a hammer is dropped on his leg. As long as they pay for him, he is ready to ignore a lot.

Signs of a gigolo

A number of signs can help identify the Alphonse.

Lies about work

Zhigalos understand that the recognition of the lack of work will not benefit them, and therefore they hide this information in every possible way. They will avoid this topic, and to a direct question about earnings, they may answer that they are self-employed. Naturally, if you ask further, there will be no "busyness". A well-thought-out story and proof of earnings is only for professional scammers.

Hides joint photos

Neither in social networks, nor in the ever-disappearing wallet, the gigolo will keep joint photos with his victim. He does not need it, he perceives a woman as a source of income, and not as part of his life.
When asked to put a joint photo on the Internet, Alphonse will laugh it off or say that he does not like the picture. Even if a man is forced to post a photo, after a while it will still disappear.

Hides documents

It is unlikely that a woman will see anything from a Gigalo other than his passport, and even that gigolo will hide it for as long as possible. Such secrecy is needed so that the victim cannot later report the man to the police. Zhigalo often work under false names, which practically does not distinguish gigolos from scammers.

Avoid talking about family

Zhigalo does not like to talk about himself or his family. He will either remain silent, or immediately admit that he is an orphan. The orphan option is often used if the gigolo needs to pity his client. As you know, women often fall in love with someone whom they initially felt sorry for.

Shows interest in other people's money

The money that a woman spent on herself or on another person is money that did not fall into the pocket of the Gigalo. Naturally, the news of the lost profit irritates the gigolo and spoils his mood. Noticing such a leak of funds, the Gigalo may try to take control of the woman's finances. Doing this will be unobtrusive, and it can be difficult to detect such manipulation.

One of the signs of manipulation is sad comments. For example, a woman donated a certain amount to charity. Zhigalo, having learned about this, will certainly sigh and say something like: “But my winter shoes are leaking ...”

It is not so important what the Alphonse says, the main message is to the victim: she spends money just like that, while he or his relatives have great financial difficulties.

Alphonse victims

It is believed that the services of gigolos are used only by women of age with a good income. Basically, this is true, Gigalos prefer this type of prey. However, one should not think that Gigalos will be embarrassed to extract money from a young girl without a permanent job. In any woman, they see primarily a source of income.

Why women succumb to the charms of Alphonse

Alphonse's behavior cannot but raise questions. Sometimes such men do not hide their intentions at all, but their victims willingly continue to communicate with them. Why is this so?

Wish to be younger

Having a young lover raises a woman's self-esteem. Zhigalo is a man between 20 and 40 years old, he looks good and is well educated. Next to such a partner, a woman will feel younger than she really is.

Men's mistakes

The fact that women fall into the hands of gigolos is the fault of ordinary men. Unfortunately, ordinary hard workers practically do not say compliments and can even afford to be rude towards a woman. Zhigalo, on the contrary, is extremely gallant and eloquent.

He will pour compliments and looks more attractive against the background of a simple man.

Rules of conduct for women next to the gigolo

What can be done to protect yourself from the influence of Alphonse?

What to do?	Why?	Alphonse's reaction
Do not trust a man with personal information and secrets.	Any of them can be a reason for blackmail and extortion of money.	He will try to get the woman to be honest with him.
Don't talk about income	If the gigolo does not know exactly how much his victim earns, then he will not be able to correctly plan his actions. As a result, he will make mistakes more often and quickly reveal his true intentions.	On his part, unobtrusive questions about the income received will begin. If a woman avoids answering, then the gigolo will begin to check the capacity of her wallet in practice: ask for a loan, talk about gifts, and so on.
Don't help financially	Any requests for help should be said that you do not have money. The main task of the gigolo is to get as much money as possible from his victim.	He will begin to invent new financial troubles and in every possible way show that he urgently needs money.
Don't trust words	Zhigalo aims to ingratiate himself with a woman.	Zhigalo will speak a lot and beautifully, but his speeches are worth nothing.
Develop high self-esteem	It must be remembered that any woman deserves more than a kept partner. Alphonse choose insecure girls with complexes as their victims.	Next to a self-confident woman, a Gigalo feels uncomfortable. Since she has no complexes, he has nothing to put pressure on to get money from a woman. As a result, Alphonse quickly leaves.

In order to open the Gigalo, you can apply a few simple tricks. Alphonse will definitely react negatively to them, which will allow the woman to find out his true motives.

What can be done:

Gigalo victims are women who want it themselves. Even noticing a partner’s unwillingness to work, they continue to provide the man with everything that he requires. Those women who have sufficient cynicism and means should remember: it is better to conclude an agreement with a professional gigolo. In this case, the likelihood of cheating on his part is minimal, and you will just have a good time.

Article formatting: Oksana Grivina

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Who is Gigalo:

Lonely and wealthy female representatives, looking for vivid impressions, often find themselves “under the gun” of beautiful, agile, self-aware men. They are used to living at the expense of ladies, satisfying their moral and sexual desires. For some, this is an immoral way of life, but for some it is a daily job.

Nowadays, it is customary to call such men, but initially this term was assigned to dance partners. For example, if a woman wanted to dance, and her husband for some reason could not or did not want to take part in this, she resorted to the services of professional dancers, of course, for a monetary reward. If the partner did an excellent job with his duties, he became a favorite who could count on gifts and repeated dates in an informal setting. This profession was not honorary, so the word "gigolo" was often regarded as "lover" or "keeper".

Why do men become gigolos?

It would seem that modern gigolos, or gigolos, are used to getting money out of thin air. However, not every man will be able to unquestioningly fulfill women's whims, look after himself impeccably, play the role of a macho in love and at the same time not react to those around him. This is hard daily work that must be paid. Many who believe that everything in the world is bought and sold are satisfied with the fact that the representative of the stronger sex gives love, tenderness and affection.

Men who have “I sell love” written on their foreheads, of course, are not born - they are made. The main reason for this "reincarnation" is easy money, because being a highly paid hero-lover is much more pleasant than unloading wagons or packing goods for a penny. Most often, intimate services are provided by "call boys" who work in nightclubs where wealthy women like to relax.

What else can gigolos do?

Professional gigolos do not stop at satisfying the sexual needs of their partners. They try to become indispensable, so they pay due attention to platonic love. Their goal is to win the full disposition of the lady, to become a true friend, a reliable support in all situations, so that she does not have a need to search for a spiritual life partner. Sometimes a gigolo can play his role so well that a rich woman will not even suspect that next to her is not a man inspired by love, but a thoughtful strategist pursuing selfish goals.

Yes, there is a question of hatred for everyone at once. And to men who are ready to sacrifice their dominant behavior and sell out, and to women (“Fools! There is no normal man, so rage!”). After all, it's like death - to become yourself whore… Whore 🤣🤣🤣🤡

In fact, with such questions, you only make things worse for your sex: and you work to tighten gender stereotypes, throwing yourself back to primitive times - he gives her a mammoth carcass, she gives him the warmth of a home. Now, in 2017, to talk about what a woman ashamed buy love and sponsor a man 🤦♀️

Wake up! A woman is her own property. My money is my property and it is my own business how I spend it. For what and before whom must be ashamed ?

According to this ingenious logic, a woman should not earn more than a man, otherwise she immediately "found a gigolo" 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️

You create unchildish stress and nervousness for yourself.

Jump out to marry stereotypes or marry them. You place yourself and others in a schizophrenic addiction to public opinion.

Is it not clear that this crowd will peck you at the first opportunity? It will destroy your marriage and your relationship, because it will force you to complex: a man - because of low income, a woman - because "I could not find a decent one, I got mixed up with a ragamuffin."

So wiser people are more concerned about how to ensure their own safety. And in the physical sense, and in the legal, and in the emotional, and in the psychological sense.

After all, a man who has more money and connections and before whom you are vulnerable can at any moment take away your property and even children, fabricating compromising evidence or bribing judges, change the locks on the perimeter of the fence and order the guards not to let you in. But when she got married, there were so many enthusiastic groans! ..

Yes, there are a bunch of professional gigolos who work on trust and fool women, giving them their last hope. Most gigolos, however, are ordinary swindlers with an empty inner world, the true essence of which can be seen from a mile away. And by asking them about their attitude towards women, you can quickly find out that it is better not to mess with such a pretzel. However, not all women can resist not buying into the bait of a manipulator. This is sad and sad (after all, not all virgins still know how to build personal boundaries and have acquaintances in a large bank, police or special services to break through the number of a mobile man; not everyone has sufficient communication skills to talk to an interlocutor), but such is life .

Women are incredibly different (in terms of income, opportunities, needs, status, social circle and connections) so that everything can be reduced to two categories. Someone needs sex, someone needs human warmth, care and support, someone needs the fucking approval of society and confirmation of female usefulness, someone needs help with the housework, someone wants to improve their financial situation thanks to a man, someone then all at once. And someone may consider a man as an investment project or a one-night stand.