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I'm afraid to lose you sometime. Beautiful confessions to the boy in his own words

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My beloved boy, my baby, my young angel! I fell in love with you from our first meeting, from the first glance, from the first smile and from your first word! When you spoke to me, I got into a fairy tale, a rainbow played in front of my eyes with bright colors, your magic voice fascinated me once and for all. I forgot about everything in the world, where I was going, why and for what. I saw only you, I heard only your voice, and the whole world around turned into one person - you! To this day, I fly in the clouds, I feel an unknown force of tide of tenderness and love, care and affection, I am happy thanks to you, my dear! When you are with me, sweetheart, my breath takes hold, my heart stops and my chest becomes, somehow incredibly cozy and warm in a special way! I want to constantly feel this warmth nearby, I need it so much! I love you honey! You are the most beautiful boy I have met in my life!

The point is, what will I tell you now? And the meaning is very great, it is universal in size, the meaning of my whole life, my existence, my future. It's you, my boy, my dear and beloved man in the world. I am extremely happy to recognize you, because not everyone has given us the opportunity to feel everything that my love for you gave me; not every day you meet a person who is ready to devote a declaration of love. It happens that a lifetime is not enough to find your love, your loved one, your soul mate. And I met you, my baby. At the beginning of life. We are so young with you, so pure that love could not pass by without looking at us, could not remain indifferent to our young hearts! And I really value this feeling, my beloved boy, I give you my recognition, words of love and I really hope for reciprocity. I think that when you ask your heart, it will tell you the truth, because the heart never fools!

The heart is filled with joy, and pleasant warmth spills over the body when I think of you my sun, my boy, my joy! And now I think only about you, other thoughts stubbornly do not want to visit my head, the whole space conceivable and not conceivable, you occupy, my dear. You absorb all my attention, only you alone exist for me. You are my universe, you are my world, you are my man. This is how my heart feels, so I feel and hope that you are my dear, you feel my love, because it is impossible not to feel it. It breaks through my mind, it breaks out of my heart, it pulsates so loudly that it does not give me the opportunity to once again swallow air! I am so happy that I met you, my boy, because without you I did not know what it was to love, what life was, what happiness was! You gave me the most important feeling in life that is priceless! I love you!

Today I had a surprisingly beautiful dream. You and I walked through the magical park, holding hands, and little angels flew around, magical attractions around, inviting us to ride and learn their magic. Incredibly beautiful butterflies flew, and the air smelled of vanilla. The alley along which we walked was strewn with stars, the fabulous atmosphere of the park was so mesmerizing that it seemed that happiness was somewhere very close. I woke up. And she clearly felt that a dream is not such a dream. Wake up, I feel the same way. I'm in love! I'm happy! I got into a fairy tale! My boy is with you, only with you I realized that miracles happen and that magic exists. Everything that I saw in a dream happens to me in reality! With you! I love you, my angel, I love you, my wizard, I love you, my miracle! Since you met, I believe in miracles!

My dear boy, my dear man! I want to scream to the whole world how I love you, how happy I am that you appeared in my life and turned it into a fairy tale! I love that love, which illuminates our life with its flame, leads along and warms the soul. You are very dear to me! You are like a bright star in the middle of the night, gloomy sky, light up everything around you, give hope for a bright future. When you are near, I feel hearty, with your eyes you give me a crazy feeling of happiness, your words burn my soul. I always want to be with you, I feel the need for it, you can even say addiction, a pleasant, sweet addiction. Thoughts about you have grown into my brain, I wake up and fall asleep with your image in front of my eyes, and you are also in a dream. Only you, I need my boy! I love you! Thank you for being there!

My dear man, my dear boy! How long have I been waiting for you, as it happens, you are standing at a stop, outsiders flash by, passers-by, acquaintances and strangers pass by. You stand and wait. And not a single loved one. All by. It is getting cold and not comfortable; more and more I want warmth. There comes a time when the wait is delayed for too long and you feel like the most lonely and unhappy person in the world. And here he comes. Bus. The number you need. And you go into a bright, bright, warm and comfortable bus and understand that it is happiness, here it is the long-awaited miracle that you have been waiting for, which is taking you home. About the same feeling I had when I met you, my boy. I immediately felt the incredible warmth and kinship of souls. I fell in love with you at first sight! I do not want partings and expectations, I want to be always there. Love you Baby!

I never thought that you could find everything that you need for happiness and spiritual harmony in one person. When I met you, I could not help but feel some special, previously unlike sensation, such a warm and dear, a feeling of incredible comfort in all my thoughts, as if the puzzles that were previously casually lying in a forgotten box, someone I took it and carefully folded it into a picture, bright and beautiful. Acquaintance with you, my boy, turned my mind around, there was a reappraisal of values \u200b\u200band I understood what I want and what I unconsciously strived for all my life. You set all the dots, all the commas and gave the plot to our novel with you. I confess my love to you, my dear, very consciously, having weighed every gram of my feelings. My heart beats for you alone, for you I breathe and you live. I love you my boy!

My sun is clear and golden, you entered my life very unexpectedly, I couldn’t even think that a simple acquaintance and further communication with you could develop into something more. It will be able to turn the page of a magic book that I’m ready to read all my life, open and read again, read and read, endlessly and each time find something new and interesting in it. Little hare, you are the dearest and dearest person to me in the whole world! Seconds, minutes, hours, weeks, months spent with you for me turned into paradise! And I will never give you to anyone! With your appearance, my life was filled with meaning, and I was able to feel how necessary it is for me - to realize that you are on this planet Earth, and how important it is for me to live for you, for you alone! I love you my baby! I will forever thank the universe for giving you to me!

You are my light ray, my sunshine, handsome, beloved, dear, affectionate, gentle and unusual boy. I love to look at your hands, I love your bottomless eyes, your face, you are divine, incomparable, brilliant and the most wonderful. For me you are softer than clouds, warmer than the sun, I want to drive around the city to write on all walls how I love you and how good you are. You held out your pure heart to me in your palms, and in return I will give you mine. Now I am the happiest girl in the world. I have you, your love, and it doesn’t matter where you are, near or distance separates us, I have your heart. It warms my soul and gives me confidence in the future, gives the meaning of existence, gives me strength and energy. My boy, I want to give you words of love, words of recognition that are torn out and require some way out. It is impossible to keep them in yourself, they are too good to be alone inside me. I love you, my boy, my dear and dear little man!

Remembering our first meeting with you, my boy, I feel incredibly warm and sweet in my soul. This meeting is so touching, this is your embarrassed smile, a shy, but not indifferent look, an inaudible answer to my ridiculous question and the hope of continuing the conversation from both sides. How you, as if spellbound, looked at me, how sincerely you rejoiced at our acquaintance and clung to every word to continue our acquaintance. You are so touching and sweet that you cannot convey in simple words. You only need to feel it, and I always feel it when I mentally return to that day, the magical day of our acquaintance. A wave of warmth and an unimaginable feeling of tenderness covers me. I love you my boy, my sweet baby, my happiness, my hope and my support! You mean a lot to me and thank you for what you do for me and our relationship! Love you!

You can think a lot about the meaning of life, its values, its labyrinths, but everything goes to the same thing. Everything in life revolves around love, without it there is neither meaning nor value. No wonder many books have been written about her, an incredible number of films have been shot, young girls are chatting about her, neighboring grandmothers gossiping on benches, everyone who is not too lazy to talk about love. Since, it is the main component of our lives. Without it, it’s empty and fresh, lonely and sad, dark and sad. And I was lucky to know her with you, my dear boy. I am delighted with the sensations, from the fact that I feel how versatile love is in its manifestations, how much it can give, to a simple girl in love. And all this immeasurable happiness, I got, thanks to you, my clear ray, my sun, my joy! I love you! I pray that these sweet moments last as long as possible with you! I need you baby!

When you looked at me for the first time, my good, my golden, my beloved boy, I want to confess to you that I have never met such views before. Your view, it’s like that, it’s so incredibly and insanely piercing, which makes time and everything around you stop. He bewitched my consciousness, bewitched all my thoughts that existed before meeting with your eyes. You found me from the crowd, you singled me out of hundreds, you gave me your attention. And made me happy. In an instant. I didn’t have time to realize, I came to my senses only when you turned to me. And then I completely disappeared. This voice, it was just created for my hearing, when you spoke, an angel danced in your tongue, my consciousness completely turned off. I fell in love. Not. I loved. Loved so desperately, so deeply and so long awaited. I love you. I love you. I love you. And there is nothing more important than love for you, my boy.

When I gave you a mutual look, I could not think that this is the beginning of our romance, the beginning of our fairy tale, the beginning of our crazy love. Pretty, witty, funny kid, why not chat, I thought. But my heart thought quite differently. It started up, became agitated and began to beat, as if he had been allocated a certain number of knocks to be used at a certain time, and there would be no other chance, otherwise it would stop. Then I did not attach much importance to this, but then, nevertheless, I paid attention, because my heart beat like crazy, it didn’t stop either when we said goodbye, nor when I arrived home, nor the next day, nor the next night. Before your first phone call, I lived in the rhythm of an energetic surge. I fell in love. I fell in love with the most beautiful boy on the planet! I'm happy! I love you honey!

So the moment has come that very happy moment, when I trust you the most secret, the most cherished, the most expensive that I have today in my soul. These are the words. Words of love, words of happiness, words from which my soul unfolds with a sweet moan, words that have settled in my soul from the moment we met. I immediately decided, in that second. My intuition never fails me, I can safely count on it, plus, my heart gave me a hint, it beat fast, and it was hard for him to stop even when you were not near me. You swallowed me up. You stole my peace, sleep and attention. All thoughts of you, and they give me unthinkable pleasure, I'm in euphoria, I'm happy! I give you a declaration of love, words that just never sounded from my lips, only for you alone I kept them, for you I protected them. I love you, my boy, my dear man!

When I met you, my dear boy, I seemed to fall into a magical, fairytale forest, where the air is saturated with an atmosphere of magic and miracles, where magic elves fly, where a good fairy lives, who fulfills dreams and desires. In this forest butterflies of extraordinary beauty flutter, beautiful songs of birds of paradise shimmer among themselves, there a rainbow shines with all colors during the day, and at night the stars flicker with a bright radiance. This amazing sensation has not left me since that day, I’m really in a fairy tale, I am becoming happier every day, with every look you have, with every word you say, with every touch you make. I want to invite you to this forest and walk there along magical paths, walk under the moonlight, drink spring water from your hands and make a fairy wish. Although ... My wish has already come true! I love you my angel! I don’t need more.

I have a dream. To have your own home, your own cozy place to live, my world, my family nest. So, I want to dream further. In this house, walls of bricks of fidelity will be built, faith will be invested in each of them. The windows in this house will be made of glass of happiness, which will never break and will always be clean and transparent. The door to the house will be made of strong wood, on which not one nest has twisted, which will forever drive away evil, envy and enemies from itself. The roof will be very strong, its foundation will be support and trust, it will protect against any bad weather, bad weather and danger. This happy house will be built with your hands, my love. I only want to see you in the role of the creator, the most important refuge of our love. My boy, although you are young, I am sure that only you can do my desire, no one else can handle it. And the most important material, the foundation for our home, is love. My love for you, my dear!

My beloved, bright and pure boy, your soul is so young and crystal that I worry every time I am going to say words of love to you. So as not to accidentally mess up your transparent soul with any word, any action. I want to go with you to a desert island so that not a single living soul touches your soul, your heart and your consciousness. I want to keep your purity, your fragility, your tenderness as long as possible. I want to swim with you in the ocean of love, walk along the banks of desires, look at clouds of hope and dream about our future. I love you so much that I just do not want to share you with anyone, I want to protect our happiness quietly, because happiness loves silence. And only in private, only one on one, I dare to utter the words of love to you, these long-awaited words that I can no longer physically keep within myself. I love you my baby, my gentle boy, my happiness!

These lines, these words originated in me quite recently, just a little time ago, I could not even think that I was capable of such feelings. The reason for this is our meeting, our extraordinary acquaintance, which turned my whole life upside down. I saw you, so beautiful, so sweet, so dear. My boy, your eyes drove me crazy, your lips mesmerized me, and when you spoke to me, I flew into the abyss of euphoria, I was simply stupefied. After all, I heard your voice in a dream, and more than once. I know his timbre, I would recognize him from a thousand voices. On request, it turned out to be even more magical, more velvet, more pleasant. You are so pure, you are so bright, an unimaginable sensation of warmth and kind emanates from you. It’s impossible not to fall in love with you, it’s impossible not to fall in love with you, you are created to deliver aesthetic pleasure, you are God. I love you!

I knew you before, I can say with complete certainty that I met you earlier, in a past life, I just lost you, we loved each other, very much, madly and desperately, but then something happened. I don’t remember what exactly, but some difficult circumstance parted us, whether it was a war, or a disaster, or death. But we parted not of our own free will. We were happy, our love was so loud that it could not break off like that. I met you in this life. I recognized you right away, I felt you with all the corners of the heart, with all the fibers of the soul, with all parts of the body. Finally, my dear boy, you are back, you are there, you are with me. How I yearned for you, my soul, my dear man. Now I won’t let you go anywhere, I won’t give it to anyone, and if you die, I will die with you. The second time I can’t bear such a loss. I love you, my honey.


I'm afraid to lose you…
  You are the soul of an unquenchable light.
  In bright lines my notebook
  And the lyric poetry plot.

I can’t breathe in you.
  You are an autumn love song.
  I remember, love, shore -
  Those happy days are vis-a-vis.

I'm afraid to lose you…
  These lines, believe me, are not a farce.
  Only with you could I know
  A waltz of love that swirls around us.

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How tremulous and frank the lines are, filled with a great sense of love of the lyrical heroine! And it really is happiness, which fate does not so often give.

Autumn song of love. Autumn is the most tender sensual waltz. One - two, three ... One - two, three ... Swirl, swirl, swirl ...

I'll tell you about Autumn
  And heart sorrow.
  I am longing and very
  I'm afraid to lose you.

From the first beat I heard, I fell in love with this gentle sadness ... The melody was magical, flying, the only one ... From verses the heart trembled and froze ... DREAM lived in them ...

Golden foliage spun in a waltz whirlwind of words and the farewell rain there was noisy outside the window ...

Closing her eyes, she listened to his breath, this magical moment, the beat of his heart ...

Lyubavushka, at any time of the year, in any weather, this autumn waltz will remain the eternal, lively, unchanging dance of Love ... Everything will be fine.

Checkmark, how beautifully you noticed both the magic melody and the gentle
  the sadness of the performer of the song.

Thank you! I'm crazy about this waltz.
  Therefore, such verses are born.

With warmth and love, Lyuba

Question to the system-vector psychologist:

“Hello, my name is Alina. Recently, I have one obsessive thought in my head: "I am very afraid of losing you!" It's about my loved one. We have a wonderful relationship and everything seems to be fine, but I i'm afraid to lose my man.  I love him so much. I'm full of feelings. I am scared to imagine that we can part. Our relationship is all that I have.

Any reaction to my words and actions takes me out of balance. All the time it seems to me: what if I do something wrong and we part? This fear prevents me from living. I am very afraid of losing him.

Recently I woke up in a cold sweat. I dreamed that we broke up  and I felt torn to pieces, as if my heart had been ripped out. She immediately wrote sms to him: “Are you all right? I had a terrible dream. I am very afraid of losing you! ” And only three hours later I received an answer from him: “I have everything OK.” While waiting, I couldn’t find a place for myself, representing all kinds of horrors.  What if the dream turns out to be broadcast?

Help me figure out how to get rid of the fear of losing a loved one? ”

How to get rid of the fear of losing a man? The answer is a system vector psychologist

Dear Alina, many people live in fears, but don't realize  them. You took a very important step, thought about the situation and wanted to get rid of fear.

Love and fear  - two opposite poles of human emotions.  People with visual vector.  They are given a huge emotional amplitude.  These people are able to experience the brightest feelings:  from endless love to unimaginable horror. And all these states they live with all his might  your passion. To love so to love, to be afraid - so to a frozen heart.

On various psychological sites you can find a recommendation: "Listen to your heart, it will not deceive." But here is just the case when the heart can also deceive.  Because you are in the wake of emotions  and this wave can easily carry you to an imaginary country, far from reality.

To understand all the nuances of your conditions will help you training in systemic vector psychology of Yuri Burlan.  Here you can realize the root causes  of your fear. Learn about your truly limitless potential be in love.  Learn so realize your emotions  that they will bring you not suffering, but tremendous the pleasure of life.  You will be able to deeply understand your loved one and much more calmly relate to everything that he does.

Training helps to get rid of any fears, because the root of all visual fears is one. Here is what people who say goodbye to fears after taking a course of lectures on systemic vector psychology write:

“By the time this happened, I was so sure that he was my ticket to happiness, only,  whom fate had prepared for me, that she was afraid to even think about the fact that someday we would part. I was terribly afraid of losing him. I stepped over all my principles, afraid to give an occasion for a quarrel. I didn’t pay attention to the fact that I’m not getting absolutely no physical satisfaction  with him, emotions blocked it. Very soon it turned into a real love affair dependence…

Now there is no such desire, just no need for it. At the training, I clearly realized that everything talking about two halves is nonsense.  Happy relationship can build ...  I got rid of the obsessive thought that I had lost my happiness forever. ” (Alena Nikolaeva http://www.yburlan.ru/results/review402)

"Now about my results ... I have for years tormented by causeless anxiety  which often leaned on me. Psychologists helped me, but as if one hundredth of a fraction went away, and then again fears came. Half of the fears my rational mind gave logical explanation.  But what is the use of these explanations if there is no normal life? And causeless anxiety in the evenings ... By the middle of the course I began to notice that began to breathe freely.  The clamps are gone. “By the end of the course, I suddenly sharply noticed that anxiety and fears left me.”  (Diana Nurgalieva http://www.yburlan.ru/results/review13917)

Start with a free online training in systemic vector psychology, where you will get the first answers to your questions. Register now at the link: http://www.yburlan.ru/training/. Use your chance to know yourself! Take a step from fears to love!

The article was written using training materials on systemic vector psychology of Yuri Burlan

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My beloved boy, my baby, my young angel! I fell in love with you from our first meeting, from the first glance, from the first smile and from your first word! When you spoke to me, I got into a fairy tale, a rainbow played in front of my eyes with bright colors, your magic voice fascinated me once and for all. I forgot about everything in the world, where I was going, why and for what. I saw only you, I heard only your voice, and the whole world around turned into one person - you! To this day, I fly in the clouds, I feel an unknown force of tide of tenderness and love, care and affection, I am happy thanks to you, my dear! When you are with me, sweetheart, my breath takes hold, my heart stops and my chest becomes, somehow incredibly cozy and warm in a special way! I want to constantly feel this warmth nearby, I need it so much! I love you honey! You are the most beautiful boy I have met in my life!

The point is, what will I tell you now? And the meaning is very great, it is universal in size, the meaning of my whole life, my existence, my future. It's you, my boy, my dear and beloved man in the world. I am extremely happy to recognize you, because not everyone has given us the opportunity to feel everything that my love for you gave me; not every day you meet a person who is ready to devote a declaration of love. It happens that a lifetime is not enough to find your love, your loved one, your soul mate. And I met you, my baby. At the beginning of life. We are so young with you, so pure that love could not pass by without looking at us, could not remain indifferent to our young hearts! And I really value this feeling, my beloved boy, I give you my recognition, words of love and I really hope for reciprocity. I think that when you ask your heart, it will tell you the truth, because the heart never fools!

The heart is filled with joy, and pleasant warmth spills over the body when I think of you my sun, my boy, my joy! And now I think only about you, other thoughts stubbornly do not want to visit my head, the whole space conceivable and not conceivable, you occupy, my dear. You absorb all my attention, only you alone exist for me. You are my universe, you are my world, you are my man. This is how my heart feels, so I feel and hope that you are my dear, you feel my love, because it is impossible not to feel it. It breaks through my mind, it breaks out of my heart, it pulsates so loudly that it does not give me the opportunity to once again swallow air! I am so happy that I met you, my boy, because without you I did not know what it was to love, what life was, what happiness was! You gave me the most important feeling in life that is priceless! I love you!

Today I had a surprisingly beautiful dream. You and I walked through the magical park, holding hands, and little angels flew around, magical attractions around, inviting us to ride and learn their magic. Incredibly beautiful butterflies flew, and the air smelled of vanilla. The alley along which we walked was strewn with stars, the fabulous atmosphere of the park was so mesmerizing that it seemed that happiness was somewhere very close. I woke up. And she clearly felt that a dream is not such a dream. Wake up, I feel the same way. I'm in love! I'm happy! I got into a fairy tale! My boy is with you, only with you I realized that miracles happen and that magic exists. Everything that I saw in a dream happens to me in reality! With you! I love you, my angel, I love you, my wizard, I love you, my miracle! Since you met, I believe in miracles!

My dear boy, my dear man! I want to scream to the whole world how I love you, how happy I am that you appeared in my life and turned it into a fairy tale! I love that love, which illuminates our life with its flame, leads along and warms the soul. You are very dear to me! You are like a bright star in the middle of the night, gloomy sky, light up everything around you, give hope for a bright future. When you are near, I feel hearty, with your eyes you give me a crazy feeling of happiness, your words burn my soul. I always want to be with you, I feel the need for it, you can even say addiction, a pleasant, sweet addiction. Thoughts about you have grown into my brain, I wake up and fall asleep with your image in front of my eyes, and you are also in a dream. Only you, I need my boy! I love you! Thank you for being there!

My dear man, my dear boy! How long have I been waiting for you, as it happens, you are standing at a stop, outsiders flash by, passers-by, acquaintances and strangers pass by. You stand and wait. And not a single loved one. All by. It is getting cold and not comfortable; more and more I want warmth. There comes a time when the wait is delayed for too long and you feel like the most lonely and unhappy person in the world. And here he comes. Bus. The number you need. And you go into a bright, bright, warm and comfortable bus and understand that it is happiness, here it is the long-awaited miracle that you have been waiting for, which is taking you home. About the same feeling I had when I met you, my boy. I immediately felt the incredible warmth and kinship of souls. I fell in love with you at first sight! I do not want partings and expectations, I want to be always there. Love you Baby!

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I never thought that you could find everything that you need for happiness and spiritual harmony in one person. When I met you, I could not help but feel some special, previously unlike sensation, such a warm and dear, a feeling of incredible comfort in all my thoughts, as if the puzzles that were previously casually lying in a forgotten box, someone I took it and carefully folded it into a picture, bright and beautiful. Acquaintance with you, my boy, turned my mind around, there was a reappraisal of values \u200b\u200band I understood what I want and what I unconsciously strived for all my life. You set all the dots, all the commas and gave the plot to our novel with you. I confess my love to you, my dear, very consciously, having weighed every gram of my feelings. My heart beats for you alone, for you I breathe and you live. I love you my boy!

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My sun is clear and golden, you entered my life very unexpectedly, I couldn’t even think that a simple acquaintance and further communication with you could develop into something more. It will be able to turn the page of a magic book that I’m ready to read all my life, open and read again, read and read, endlessly and each time find something new and interesting in it. Little hare, you are the dearest and dearest person to me in the whole world! Seconds, minutes, hours, weeks, months spent with you for me turned into paradise! And I will never give you to anyone! With your appearance, my life was filled with meaning, and I was able to feel how necessary it is for me - to realize that you are on this planet Earth, and how important it is for me to live for you, for you alone! I love you my baby! I will forever thank the universe for giving you to me!

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You are my light ray, my sunshine, handsome, beloved, dear, affectionate, gentle and unusual boy. I love to look at your hands, I love your bottomless eyes, your face, you are divine, incomparable, brilliant and the most wonderful. For me you are softer than clouds, warmer than the sun, I want to drive around the city to write on all walls how I love you and how good you are. You held out your pure heart to me in your palms, and in return I will give you mine. Now I am the happiest girl in the world. I have you, your love, and it doesn’t matter where you are, near or distance separates us, I have your heart. It warms my soul and gives me confidence in the future, gives the meaning of existence, gives me strength and energy. My boy, I want to give you words of love, words of recognition that are torn out and require some way out. It is impossible to keep them in yourself, they are too good to be alone inside me. I love you, my boy, my dear and dear little man!

Remembering our first meeting with you, my boy, I feel incredibly warm and sweet in my soul. This meeting is so touching, this is your embarrassed smile, a shy, but not indifferent look, an inaudible answer to my ridiculous question and the hope of continuing the conversation from both sides. How you, as if spellbound, looked at me, how sincerely you rejoiced at our acquaintance and clung to every word to continue our acquaintance. You are so touching and sweet that you cannot convey in simple words. You only need to feel it, and I always feel it when I mentally return to that day, the magical day of our acquaintance. A wave of warmth and an unimaginable feeling of tenderness covers me. I love you my boy, my sweet baby, my happiness, my hope and my support! You mean a lot to me and thank you for what you do for me and our relationship! Love you!

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You can think a lot about the meaning of life, its values, its labyrinths, but everything goes to the same thing. Everything in life revolves around love, without it there is neither meaning nor value. No wonder many books have been written about her, an incredible number of films have been shot, young girls are chatting about her, neighboring grandmothers gossiping on benches, everyone who is not too lazy to talk about love. Since, it is the main component of our lives. Without it, it’s empty and fresh, lonely and sad, dark and sad. And I was lucky to know her with you, my dear boy. I am delighted with the sensations, from the fact that I feel how versatile love is in its manifestations, how much it can give, to a simple girl in love. And all this immeasurable happiness, I got, thanks to you, my clear ray, my sun, my joy! I love you! I pray that these sweet moments last as long as possible with you! I need you baby!

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When you looked at me for the first time, my good, my golden, my beloved boy, I want to confess to you that I have never met such views before. Your view, it’s like that, it’s so incredibly and insanely piercing, which makes time and everything around you stop. He bewitched my consciousness, bewitched all my thoughts that existed before meeting with your eyes. You found me from the crowd, you singled me out of hundreds, you gave me your attention. And made me happy. In an instant. I didn’t have time to realize, I came to my senses only when you turned to me. And then I completely disappeared. This voice, it was just created for my hearing, when you spoke, an angel danced in your tongue, my consciousness completely turned off. I fell in love. Not. I loved. Loved so desperately, so deeply and so long awaited. I love you. I love you. I love you. And there is nothing more important than love for you, my boy.

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When I gave you a mutual look, I could not think that this is the beginning of our romance, the beginning of our fairy tale, the beginning of our crazy love. Pretty, witty, funny kid, why not chat, I thought. But my heart thought quite differently. It started up, became agitated and began to beat, as if he had been allocated a certain number of knocks to be used at a certain time, and there would be no other chance, otherwise it would stop. Then I did not attach much importance to this, but then, nevertheless, I paid attention, because my heart beat like crazy, it didn’t stop either when we said goodbye, nor when I arrived home, nor the next day, nor the next night. Before your first phone call, I lived in the rhythm of an energetic surge. I fell in love. I fell in love with the most beautiful boy on the planet! I'm happy! I love you honey!

***

So the moment has come that very happy moment, when I trust you the most secret, the most cherished, the most expensive that I have today in my soul. These are the words. Words of love, words of happiness, words from which my soul unfolds with a sweet moan, words that have settled in my soul from the moment we met. I immediately decided, in that second. My intuition never fails me, I can safely count on it, plus, my heart gave me a hint, it beat fast, and it was hard for him to stop even when you were not near me. You swallowed me up. You stole my peace, sleep and attention. All thoughts of you, and they give me unthinkable pleasure, I'm in euphoria, I'm happy! I give you a declaration of love, words that just never sounded from my lips, only for you alone I kept them, for you I protected them. I love you, my boy, my dear man!

***

When I met you, my dear boy, I seemed to fall into a magical, fairytale forest, where the air is saturated with an atmosphere of magic and miracles, where magic elves fly, where a good fairy lives, who fulfills dreams and desires. In this forest butterflies of extraordinary beauty flutter, beautiful songs of birds of paradise shimmer among themselves, there a rainbow shines with all colors during the day, and at night the stars flicker with a bright radiance. This amazing sensation has not left me since that day, I’m really in a fairy tale, I am becoming happier every day, with every look you have, with every word you say, with every touch you make. I want to invite you to this forest and walk there along magical paths, walk under the moonlight, drink spring water from your hands and make a fairy wish. Although ... My wish has already come true! I love you my angel! I don’t need more.

***

I have a dream. To have your own home, your own cozy place to live, my world, my family nest. So, I want to dream further. In this house, walls of bricks of fidelity will be built, faith will be invested in each of them. The windows in this house will be made of glass of happiness, which will never break and will always be clean and transparent. The door to the house will be made of strong wood, on which not one nest has twisted, which will forever drive away evil, envy and enemies from itself. The roof will be very strong, its foundation will be support and trust, it will protect against any bad weather, bad weather and danger. This happy house will be built with your hands, my love. I only want to see you in the role of the creator, the most important refuge of our love. My boy, although you are young, I am sure that only you can do my desire, no one else can handle it. And the most important material, the foundation for our home, is love. My love for you, my dear!

***

My beloved, bright and pure boy, your soul is so young and crystal that I worry every time I am going to say words of love to you. So as not to accidentally mess up your transparent soul with any word, any action. I want to go with you to a desert island so that not a single living soul touches your soul, your heart and your consciousness. I want to keep your purity, your fragility, your tenderness as long as possible. I want to swim with you in the ocean of love, walk along the banks of desires, look at clouds of hope and dream about our future. I love you so much that I just do not want to share you with anyone, I want to protect our happiness quietly, because happiness loves silence. And only in private, only one on one, I dare to utter the words of love to you, these long-awaited words that I can no longer physically keep within myself. I love you my baby, my gentle boy, my happiness!

***

These lines, these words originated in me quite recently, just a little time ago, I could not even think that I was capable of such feelings. The reason for this is our meeting, our extraordinary acquaintance, which turned my whole life upside down. I saw you, so beautiful, so sweet, so dear. My boy, your eyes drove me crazy, your lips mesmerized me, and when you spoke to me, I flew into the abyss of euphoria, I was simply stupefied. After all, I heard your voice in a dream, and more than once. I know his timbre, I would recognize him from a thousand voices. On request, it turned out to be even more magical, more velvet, more pleasant. You are so pure, you are so bright, an unimaginable sensation of warmth and kind emanates from you. It’s impossible not to fall in love with you, it’s impossible not to fall in love with you, you are created to deliver aesthetic pleasure, you are God. I love you!

***

I knew you before, I can say with complete certainty that I met you earlier, in a past life, I just lost you, we loved each other, very much, madly and desperately, but then something happened. I don’t remember what exactly, but some difficult circumstance parted us, whether it was a war, or a disaster, or death. But we parted not of our own free will. We were happy, our love was so loud that it could not break off like that. I met you in this life. I recognized you right away, I felt you with all corners of the heart, with all the fibers of the soul, with all parts of the body. Finally, my dear boy, you are back, you are there, you are with me. How I yearned for you, my soul, my dear man. Now I won’t let you go anywhere, I won’t give it to anyone, and if you die, I will die with you. The second time I can’t bear such a loss. I love you, my honey.

I will take your lock of hair
  And quietly whisper in my ear:
  "I'm afraid to lose you,
  My nice little girl. "

Without the nights you have given
  Uncomfortable big bunk.
  Without you, I'm absolutely no one
  And I want to be yours and nothing more.

Rushing with captions today
  On a brainless clock screen.
  Time is like a whirlwind of the steppes,
  But we will not slow it down.

I just wanted to know
  In this reckless speed,
  What do you lose me
  It is just as scary.

I want to just live and love
  It's just that everything in life can be
  Just ... something I don’t understand.

I want ... peace and silence,
  Nothing to think about and not wait.
  To run away ... from this fuss would be.
  Do not say goodbye and do not lose.

Do not have enemies, only friends,
  To have more good people.
  To reign, love and goodness
  So as not to know what evil is.

I want to just live and love
I don’t know how much is left for us.
  It's just ... maybe it could be ...
  I'm just afraid that you ...

I'm afraid to call you, but what if you refuse?
  You will say bitterly: you are fed up - and that’s it ... goodbye ...
  And you will make your way to yourself forever
  Say: never come again ...
  - Do not call and throw the phone number,
  Throw away the torment of your conscience ....
  Not always been in love with me
  So you come back to him ....
  Throw away all the verses and songs
  That secretly always dedicated to me
  And forget, please, rather
  What I once promised ...
  You know you won’t command the heart,
  Can't make me quit ...

And I'm afraid to confess to you
  To say that I love you.
  After all, to fight the feelings inside
  Believe me, I can no longer.

I like it when you're around
  And how you look at me.
  As you speak with my gaze
  Beckoning with your smile.

But words so warm that from the heart
  They come from the very depths
  I'm afraid 'Cause a door can slam
  And these feelings will all pass.

But once you told me
  What words are not important right now.
  And it’s important that the heart becomes
  Through the eyes of the body and soul.

After all, the main thing is not that ...

The sun rises in the morning
  Sits down in the evening.
  And apart from you
  Can’t sleep at night.
  Just remember you
  There is sadness in my eyes.
  We are not together now
  It would not be a pity.
  I didn’t do anything,
  To be with you
  And so now
  I can’t forgive myself.
  The night will pass, the morning will come
  And again, too.
  There is no next to you
  And no one will help me.
  I didn’t want to die
  But no one will ask.
  I didn’t want to suffer so much
  No one will help me.
  I didn’t want to let go
  He let it go by accident.
  And now at least ...

I'm afraid for you ...

Where did you go when you get back ...
  I don’t know ... I think ... I am silent ...
  When you touch my hand ...
  And what's wrong with you ... I want to know ...
  Minutes stretch ... and again ...
  I look at my watch in tears ...
  Three eighteen ... what is it ...
  But the heart whispers - do not look ...
  But again I’ll look ... now, three twenty ...
  How can I stop the time ...
  So that you, safe and sound ...
  He came to talk to us ...
  I know ... I'm acting stupid
  Already two years to fly ...
  I am waiting for you and happiness sparingly ...
  But what ... what if it comes?
  Suddenly you will love me twice ...

Question to the system-vector psychologist:

“Hello, my name is Alina. Recently, I have one obsessive thought in my head: "I am very afraid of losing you!" It's about my loved one. We have a wonderful relationship and everything seems to be fine, but I i'm afraid to lose my man.  I love him so much. I'm full of feelings. I am scared to imagine that we can part. Our relationship is all that I have.

Any reaction to my words and actions takes me out of balance. All the time it seems to me: what if I do something wrong and we part? This fear prevents me from living. I am very afraid of losing him.

Recently I woke up in a cold sweat. I dreamed that we broke up  and I felt torn to pieces, as if my heart had been ripped out. She immediately wrote sms to him: “Are you all right? I had a terrible dream. I am very afraid of losing you! ” And only three hours later I received an answer from him: “I have everything OK.” While waiting, I couldn’t find a place for myself, representing all kinds of horrors.  What if the dream turns out to be broadcast?

Help me figure out how to get rid of the fear of losing a loved one? ”

How to get rid of the fear of losing a man? The answer is a system vector psychologist

Dear Alina, many people live in fears, but don't realize  them. You took a very important step, thought about the situation and wanted to get rid of fear.

Love and fear  - two opposite poles of human emotions.  People with visual vector.  They are given a huge emotional amplitude.  These people are able to experience the brightest feelings:  from endless love to unimaginable horror. And all these states they live with all his might  your passion. To love so to love, to be afraid - so to a frozen heart.

On various psychological sites you can find a recommendation: "Listen to your heart, it will not deceive." But here is just the case when the heart can also deceive.  Because you are in the wake of emotions  and this wave can easily carry you to an imaginary country, far from reality.

To understand all the nuances of your conditions will help you training in systemic vector psychology of Yuri Burlan.  Here you can realize the root causes  of your fear. Learn about your truly limitless potential be in love.  Learn so realize your emotions  that they will bring you not suffering, but tremendous the pleasure of life.  You will be able to deeply understand your loved one and much more calmly relate to everything that he does.

Training helps to get rid of any fears, because the root of all visual fears is one. Here is what people who say goodbye to fears after taking a course of lectures on systemic vector psychology write:

“By the time this happened, I was so sure that he was my ticket to happiness, only,  whom fate had prepared for me, that she was afraid to even think about the fact that someday we would part. I was terribly afraid of losing him. I stepped over all my principles, afraid to give an occasion for a quarrel. I didn’t pay attention to the fact that I’m not getting absolutely no physical satisfaction  with him, emotions blocked it. Very soon it turned into a real love affair dependence…

Now there is no such desire, just no need for it. At the training, I clearly realized that everything talking about two halves is nonsense.  Happy relationship can build ...  I got rid of the obsessive thought that I had lost my happiness forever. ” (Alena Nikolaeva http://www.yburlan.ru/results/review402)

"Now about my results ... I have for years tormented by causeless anxiety  which often leaned on me. Psychologists helped me, but as if one hundredth of a fraction went away, and then again fears came. Half of the fears my rational mind gave logical explanation.  But what is the use of these explanations if there is no normal life? And causeless anxiety in the evenings ... By the middle of the course I began to notice that began to breathe freely.  The clamps are gone. “By the end of the course, I suddenly sharply noticed that anxiety and fears left me.”  (Diana Nurgalieva http://www.yburlan.ru/results/review13917)

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The article was written using training materials on systemic vector psychology of Yuri Burlan


I'm afraid to lose you ... You tell me that you love, but I'm still afraid ...
For three months now, I have been waking up every morning and mentally asking you and I to be fine, to be happy, and to fall asleep with the same thought. I feel sad when you feel bad, I rejoice when you feel good, regardless of my mood and well-being. Only you can cheer me up when no one can do this - thank you for that! Thanks again for the two wonderful days we spent together! They were awesome! Thank you for the time you devote to me, for the warmth of your hands and the tenderness of your lips! For the gleam of your eyes, for the smile, the words and the quiet whisper that gives me peace. I thank you very much for taking care of me, for a strong hug, beautiful poetry and for a small piece of heart that will now always lie in my upper pocket! With you, I realized that it’s impossible to live without love and I forget about the problems, thinking about you. Now I’m glad that I have you and I’m very afraid of losing you. Many people tell me that: “Nobody belongs to anyone in this life” but I don’t believe them and I will fight for our fragile feeling called love ... I’m afraid to start without you every day, I’m afraid to continue living like I used to, and I’m very, very afraid to lose you ... Because when I stop being afraid, I'll just stop loving you and forget about you forever ...

* * * *
   I wake up, I live and breathe
   I’m in a hurry for business, as usual,
   I'm trying to run somewhere
   But I'm afraid I lose you.

And putting on the most fashionable outfit,
   I will take an independent view
   Continuing to surprise you
   Well, in the heart: "I'm afraid to lose."

In the morning - to the sun, and at night - to the moon,
   I repeat, as if in a dream:
   Even if you have to suffer -
   Anyway, I'm afraid to lose.

Though I’m chatting with you, even though I’m silent
   Though I cry and even laugh
   Once again, I would like to say:
   So I'm afraid I lose you ...

I'm afraid to lose you,
   After all, this happens in the world.
   I don't want to leave you
   And with hope I dream of summer;
   How are we going to sunbathe,
   To dive and swim in the blue sea
   But I'm afraid to lose you
   And part with you forever ...