You are a special person for me. Test: find out if you are a special person. You are kind to others

When everything becomes cloudy, it becomes not at all important; when ties, like strings, break, and the meaning - seemingly found - seems like a stupid invention, an excuse for its own futility. It is at this moment that a special person takes a seat next to you.

They say there is a special person in the world.

He is the one who sits nearby in the minibus when your life manages to collapse at a time when the personal cross becomes too heavy to carry on his back.

When your hands shake - and the voice would probably shake if the stone in the chest did not interfere with speaking.

When everything becomes cloudy, it becomes not at all important; when ties, like strings, break, and the meaning - seemingly found - seems like a stupid invention, an excuse for its own futility.

It is at this moment that a special person takes a seat next to you.

Silently glances at you, and then says something simple, but painfully, gratefully laughing, necessary. Something that gives you the strength to go a few more days.

You smile and even joke. You shamefully cover your face with both shaking hands until recently, wanting to hide your awkward, but obvious weakness, so clearly seen by the neighbor. But deep down you know that no one condemns you. And it makes it easier for you.

A man comes out with you at one stop. Sometimes she escorts home, but after, as all creators of good deeds are supposed to, she goes further around the world. Helping others doomed.

Soon he is met somewhere else. He finds tearful and empty, but decisive in his own destruction. Burnt inside, clogged, filled with pain to the brim. In silence they measure the steps with their steps, limp weaving somewhere towards the end of the path.

A man finds them at the edge.

This area is anything - a high-rise building on the outskirts or a path to your favorite park, Center streets, doorways ... Each has its own territory.

But it is there that they meet a man. Sunny by nature, with a dim light in his eyes, he says:

- Can I help you?

And people cannot refuse him.

Hostile from the beginning, locked in themselves and their own desperate misfortune, they suddenly respond, revealing to a simple passer-by.

- Yes, you can! They say so often.

And many, a little later, add: - Do ... anything. Tell me something, touch me ... Just don't leave me alone. And, I beg you, do not turn out to be either a thief, or a bastard, or a deceiver. Do not turn out to be bad. I can’t even survive this.

And the pain floats out.

It covers with a huge wave, and the bodies, along with the souls, shudder - and tremble.

Disenfranchised, people gasp in sobs and their own hopeless, absorbing and hopeless grief.

And cling to the person.

And he, fulfilling their request, a desperate cry of supplication, hugs them with warm, careful hands and rocking, not letting go, like lost children.

He does not let people go until the bright pain that suddenly comes out, leaves the tormented hearts. Until peace comes from childhood, their consciousness wraps around, quenching nervous tremors.

After that, a person says goodbye and forgives: for tears and for a minute weakness, for life stories, for hatred and for pain. For all those vices that we are so ashamed of, but which all of us have.

And people, accepted, reassured, are again trying to live.

If not for his own sake, then at least for those who, like Man, did not leave them at the hour of darkness.

They again believe in goodness - and, quite a bit, in miracles, because such saviors are like a gift from heaven.

They believe in themselves and, sometimes, even in the fact that they can become the same person, not indifferent to someone else's emptiness.

After all, desperate people need uncontrollably whoever will be there when they run out of strength.

Who will become a wall at the very end of the road, when the whole world has faded, and the future - joyful, bright - has collapsed with a house of cards.

We all really need such a person.

And there would be many such people if each of us decided to become one for others. Author Elena Korf.

If you have any questions about this topic, ask them to specialists and readers of our project.

P.S. And remember, just changing our consciousness - together we change the world! © econet

Incredible facts

"The more you love yourself, the less you look like someone, and that makes you unique." - Walt Disney

Most people suffer from low self-esteem. But among us there are many special people who do not even realize that they are unique.

The reason for this is that sometimes in our lives there may be people who underestimate us and make us feel useless and flawed.

But it's nice to know that you are special.

To be a special person, in a good sense of the word, each of us strives. However, only a few can be ranked as such.

But there are signs that indicate that you are the chosen one, about whom you can safely say: he (she), indeed, is a special person.

These are the 10 signs:

Special person

1. Do you think that there is always something to learn in life

"The only true wisdom is to realize that we essentially don't know anything." (Socrates)

You are not arrogant, like many people, and you are interested in what is happening around the world. In addition, you are a curious person, and you always feel that you should learn something new, because it is always useful to improve your own skills.

2. You are kind to others

When you meet new people or when you are dealing with someone you already know, for example, chatting with friends or colleagues, you are smiling and always kind to them.

And this is correct, because there is no reason to be negative and negatively relate to others.

Never try to imitate people who are always evil and displeased with everyone, those who are rude and ignorant, those who disrespect others, even if they are stronger physically.

As a rule, such people have a lot of personal problems and internal complexes.

Just the way you relate to others characterizes you as a person. Your kindness and positiveness make you special and unique.

3. Do you understand other people's feelings

You do not know how, but when someone shares with you the details of their personal lives, talks about their problems and troubles, you perfectly understand how this person feels at that moment.

You share feelings and feelings and are able to guess the mood of people.

For example, if someone tells you: “I am in perfect order”, you know for sure whether the person is in order or is it just a phrase to calm, but in fact everything is much more serious. Indeed, by the face and intonation in the voice, you are able to determine the experiences of your interlocutor, his thoughts and mood.

4. Do you know how to enjoy music

"There is a great feature in music - when it hits you, you don’t feel pain." - Bob Marley.

The human brain is very sensitive and especially susceptible to music. We not only enjoy music, but also need it in our daily lives, and it always evokes deep emotions in us.

These emotions can be good or bad, but they are always very strong emotions.

Rare qualities

5. You can listen

“I like to listen. I learned a lot by listening carefully to others. But most people just can't listen.” - Ernest Hemingway

This is one of the rarest qualities in man. Everyone can talk about themselves for hours. But the talent to hear another is not given to everyone.

If you know how to hear and listen to others, at the same time, sincerely interested in what the other person is telling you, then you are a truly special person.

6. Do you like to make others happy

You feel good every time you manage to please someone or make him happy.

You think a lot about how to make people smile more often and live better. And most importantly, you put a lot of effort into this. On your part, this may be an unexpected gift, a smile, a surprise, or any good deed that will make someone happy in this world.

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