The period in a woman’s life is that. Midlife crisis in women: symptoms and timing. When to wait and how to survive a midlife crisis? The views of scientists on the age periods of human life

A middle-aged crisis in women is a conditional concept. When does a woman have this midlife crisis? It can begin at 30, 40 or 50 years. There are no clear boundaries. And this very concept belongs to the field of psychology, and many authors interpret this concept and the crisis process in different ways. There is no medical diagnosis. I.V. Dubrovina defines the concept of “critical age” as something fuzzy, which was still practically studied in the first third of the 20th century. And then the research stopped, but nevertheless, the age crisis was seen as something mandatory and immutable. As a fact.

In Erickson’s concept, for example, crisis is a period of formation of a psychological neoplasm. For example, in the period from 0 to 1 year, a person develops the basic trust of a person in the world around him. That is, in other words, how people around him (first of all, mother, of course) will approach a person with sincere warmth or reject, then, accordingly, he will also relate to the world around him. A crisis is also a period of rethinking your life. Therefore, a midlife crisis in both men and women is a common and common phenomenon.

Throughout our life, we all go through 12 stages corresponding to the signs of the zodiac. And there is a point of life that moves at a speed of 4.3 degrees per year, starting its path in Aries, ending in Pisces.

We can always determine exactly what problems we will face at one age or another. Each of us must carry out our program at each specific age and, as a result, for our whole life.

See how you are fulfilling the program of life, draw your conclusions.

From 0 to 7 years.

The point of life at this age moves along the fastest sign - Aries.

Energy is bubbling in the kids, they are restless and inquisitive, immediately want to know everything and everything, and there is no force that could stop them.

And one should not restrain a child at this age; on the contrary, it is necessary to give him more freedom, because it is very important for him to assert himself and to show his abilities.

The task of parents is to instill in the child a feeling of love and compassion for others, to prevent selfishness and cruelty from developing. After all, the motto of this age and Aries is: “I want!” Do not let the child offend animals and other babies, learn to be careful about nature, and cultivate willpower. If you fail to instill in a child these qualities before the age of seven, you will never vaccinate!

From 7 to 14 years

The point of life moves to the curly-haired Taurus.

Therefore, gentlemen, parents, do not indulge all the material desires and whims of your child. At this stage in life, he must be taught to control his emotions, especially anger and aggression. It is necessary to develop and train memory.

Try culturally but firmly form a teenager's social circle, since at this age the negative energy of the crowd accumulates in it, which can later manifest itself in cruelty and intransigence towards others. But do not isolate the child from peers. Of great importance is the place of their meetings and atmosphere.

It is also important to lay the foundations of systemic learning. Try to let the child learn more of the various studied material, the more - the better. At this age, it is quite easy for a child to instill a love of art and aesthetics. The best time to study at music and art schools.

And at the age of 13-14, it is necessary to inculcate and form the correct attitude to your ancestors and roots. You can speculate on philosophical topics. It is time!

From 15 to 21

Point moves on the sign of Gemini.

It is time to actively develop intelligence and independent thinking. At the age of 15–16, a person enters into societywhere its laws and rules that must be learned to comply, so that society accepts it. It is necessary to get rid of lack of assembledness, irresponsibility, and cravings for gossip and speculation.

It’s time for parents to start sexually educating their children, otherwise they will find out for themselves (in fact, I think these recommendations about sex education are outdated, start it earlier).

At this age, it is useful to travel a lot, learn the cultures of other countries, and absorb a variety of information.

From 21 to 28 years old

Life Point - in Cancer.

This is a very important stage in the life of every person. The main task is to improve the inner world, the formation of our own value system based on the experience of older generations.

Engaged in introspection and spiritually improving, a person should try to get rid of many negative qualities: suspiciousness, isolation from others, greed.

The most difficult thing at this age is to overcome the boundary of 25–26 years, when a person is overcome by the desire to quit everything and start living anew. During this period, it is very important to make the right choice, since many have already created a family. Often rash acts break life not only for him, but also for those close to him.

In order not to make mistakes, you need to establish strong spiritual bonds with parents and relatives, just with the older generation. In a difficult situation, they can really help in word and deed.

25–26 years is the most favorable time for the birth of children, since they adopt from parents the best qualities of their personality.

From 28 to 35 years old

The point of life is in Leo.

A tendency to adventurism, alcoholism, drug addiction begins to manifest; there is an influx of energy that not everyone can use correctly, many begin to spend it in vain, indulging in joys and entertainment, often empty and worthless.

The best way to deal with temptations is to engage in philosophy, religion, and reading books that raise the moral and purity of the soul. It is very important to choose the right philosophical concept, not to go into sectarianism, not to accumulate negative energy that can destroy a person.

The turning point is up to 32 years. From the age of 28, family problems go by the wayside, the main thing is their own ego. A man tries to prove himself in the team to be noticed, appreciated. At 29 years old for the first time sums up the past years.

The period of 32 years is very important for women. The time of a change of feelings, a review of their personal relationships. At this age, divorces often happen, new love relationships are made. We must try to analyze the past, weigh the pros and cons, and not immediately cut off the shoulder. New feelings may not last long, sometimes only a year.

From 35 to 42 years old

The point of life is in Virgo.

The time is coming when a person must give up most of the energy accumulated in the previous period. Clarity and methodicality are needed in the approach to solving a variety of problems.

Favorable time for professional growth and marriage of convenience.

Age from 37 to 38 years - karmic test, test of societies. This is the first exam on how you observe the principles of the zodiac, whether you are fulfilling your life program. And if not, then you will receive punishment in the form of various life problems: dismissal from work, a serious illness, betrayal of friends.

During this period, it is necessary to pay close attention to your health. It is especially worth paying attention to your diet, try not to slag the body.

At the age of Virgo, unpleasant traits can appear in the character: obese, picky, avaricious, neglect of the feelings and needs of others. But the main - get ready for the most responsible cycle in your life - 42 years - the half-cycle of Uranus, when the point of life crosses the vital "equator". At this age, many are trying to change their lives, as it seems to them, for the better: they are changing their family, place of work, place of residence, hobbies.

From 42 to 49 years old

The point of life moves along the sign of Libra.

During this period, a person tries to surrender to a creatively chosen case in 42 years. This age is also called the "Indian summer" when harmony and maturity comes in both personal and social life. Everything that has been accumulated over previous years is analyzed, systematized and awaits implementation.

The main planet of Libra is Venus. It is she who directs the person in an effort to create strong harmonious ties, to follow the laws of ethics and morality in deeds and feelings.

During this period, it is necessary to establish social ties, get a new job, show your organizational skills and get rid of shortcomings. Such as, for example, egocentrism, selfishness, a tendency to dictate. A good time to develop your talents, if you have them.

From 49 to 55 years old

Scorpio time.

A difficult, critical period in the life of any person, especially women. We have to change long-established views, which is very difficult to do. Breaking is difficult and painful. On the physical plane, many often have cancer, many (especially at 52) \u200b\u200bhave a sexual syndrome - increased sexual dissatisfaction.

At the age of Scorpio, a person has tremendous self-destructive power and is sometimes ready to go all-in for the sake of achieving the goal. It is necessary to control your emotions, in no case do not lock yourself in and do not engage in self-digging. More often go out, meet friends, engage in the study of psychology, creativity or collective activity.

This period is favorable for the disclosure and improvement of magical and occult abilities. Women in 52 are especially prone to this.

For those who until this time led an unrighteous lifestyle, fate provides a chance to improve, abandon delusions and start living on completely new philosophical principles.

From 56 to 63 years old

At this age, the point of life moves along the sign of Sagittarius.

A person begins to rush into philosophy or religion. Many have a fussy craving for knowledge that they did not have time to acquire once. I would like to know several sciences at once, different philosophical trends. But, as a rule, this fails. Mercury is imprisoned, and, clutching at a lot, a person does not achieve results at all. Try to choose one thing and study this subject in more depth.

At 56, a person passes another test by society. All errors and mistakes made at the age of 37 and 38 years are manifested here. Who correctly approached this stage of his path, he occupies high posts in society. Those who fail the test do not achieve their goals and go on a well-deserved rest.

From 63 to 70 years old

The point of life moves in the sign of Capricorn.

There is a last chance! It is at age 63 that the person’s last choice when he MAY change his life if desired. The one who makes the wrong choice, as a rule, leaves life or breaks it badly. This is especially true for people who want to create another family: in 90% of cases, nothing comes of it. You can destroy the old, create a new - almost unrealistic.

At the age of Capricorn, it is necessary to abandon some stereotypical ideas, finally develop a vital, philosophical core and learn to give a clear assessment of each phenomenon, every event, but in no case to impose your opinion and listen carefully to your opponents.

It is very important to build relationships with your loved ones correctly, as many at this age try to show despotism towards them. Try to develop your diplomacy, the ability to compromise.

From 70 to 77 years old

Aquarius time.

The time of contemplating life, the philosophical view of it, the look of an outside observer. Throughout life, a person changes his attitude to the world around him, changes his priorities.

In childhood we say: “I”. In his youth: "I and the world." In adulthood: "Peace and Me." At the age of Aquarius there remains only "MIR".

This fourth stage of perception is the most important in the awareness of life and its place in it. If over the years such a perception of the world does not come, then the spiritual qualities of a person gradually begin to fade, he falls into insanity, which inevitably leads to the collapse of the physical body.

The time of Aquarius is a time of enjoying solitude or family solitude with one's half, since the life program has already been completed.

Agree, there is something to think about ...published

Vasilchenko Anna

Let's talk about why menopause occurs. The life expectancy of women has increased significantly over the past century. Judge for yourself - at the beginning of the 20th century it averaged 50 years, and at the end - already 80. And the childbearing period lasts for a rather long time - up to about 50 years.

It turns out that about a third of the life of a modern woman falls on a difficult period, menopause. How to be healthy in these years, to be able to rejoice and be pleased with yourself, we will try to tell in this article.

Climax ... Translated from Greek, this term means a turning point. There is a gradual extinction of ovarian function, as a result of which a woman stops menstruating. Menopause can be divided into several stages: the transition to menopause, menopause, postmenopause. The time that combines the transition to menopause and two years after the cessation of menstruation is called perimenopause. It is then that significant hormonal changes occur in the physiological and, as a result, the emotional state of a woman.

The transition to menopause begins from the onset of the first menopausal symptoms in the form of “hot flashes”, irregular periods, until they stop completely. How long does menopause last? These manifestations begin at about 45-47 years and are observed about 4 years. Menstrual irregularities are one of the first signs of an approaching menopause. Delays of menstruation from several days to several months can be interspersed with regular cycles. Sometimes the delays are constant, bleeding becomes shorter and scarcer. In some women, delays alternate with uterine bleeding. And there are those who have regular menstruation until the menopause and the transition to it proceeds without a deterioration in well-being.

Women often ask: is pregnancy possible during the transition to menopause? Yes, and at this time, and during the year after the last menstruation. Therefore, it is necessary to use contraception. The most acceptable barrier methods of protection, for example candles, sponges, diaphragms, condoms. If a woman has not had independent periods for a year, it can be said that the last menstruation is menopause.

In a healthy woman, natural menopause occurs between the ages of 50-52. Early menopause - from 40 to 44 years old, and in 36-39 - premature. If a woman's ovaries and / or uterus are removed, then they are talking about the complete cessation of menstruation (surgical or artificial menopause).

How to postpone the onset of menopause? What affects the early onset of menopause? Active smoking (more than 10-15 cigarettes per day), stress, underweight. As well as chronic diseases: rheumatoid arthritis, systemic lupus erythematosus, thyroid dysfunction, type 1 diabetes and a number of other ailments. Menstruation may stop after chemotherapy or radiation exposure for serious illnesses.

At what age does menopause begin? Postmenopause is the period from the onset of menopause to 65-69 years. It was at this time that the symptoms of the menopause period gradually developed.

How is menopause manifested in women

Early menopause

It is characterized by “hot flashes”, night sweats, headaches, jumps in blood pressure, dizziness, palpitations, changes in the psycho-emotional sphere. Typically, hot flashes bother women for 1-2 years after menopause, but in rare cases 10-15 years are observed. During the “tide”, the face, neck, chest, back are reddening, this can be accompanied by profuse sweating, palpitations and fever.

Stress, smoking, abuse of spices, coffee, chocolate, cola, very hot food exacerbate these unpleasant sensations. How to push menopause? Here hormone replacement therapy can help, which should be agreed with the doctor. In addition to the prescribed treatment, adhere to some rules for the prevention of menopause:

take a contrast shower in the morning and evening with alternating warm and cool water;
give up bad habits and adjust your diet;
exercise regularly
when choosing a wardrobe, give preference to loose-fitting clothing made from natural fabrics;
ventilate rooms more often for a long time;
try to avoid stress and learn how to respond to it.

During this period, women become irritable, tearful, forgetful. They get tired quickly, have difficulty concentrating. There are difficulties in communicating in the family, at work. Women are easily offended, especially acutely feel loneliness, misunderstanding of others. Due to low self-esteem, they make inadequate attempts to assert themselves and are very difficult to experience changes in the sexual sphere.

However, not everything is explained by hormonal changes. In many ways, these are just family difficulties: children grow up, leave, the husband moves away or has another woman, housework is given with great effort, and thoughts of old age are overcome. In such a situation, it is useful to visit women's centers and the so-called "Menopause Schools".

If menopause is early:

do not lock yourself in;
actively seek a way out of difficult situations;
change your attitude to all unpleasant events in a more positive way;
feel free to seek help from a psychologist or psychotherapist.

Mid-term manifestations of menopause occur 2-4 years after the onset of menopause. Pain during intercourse, dryness, discomfort in the vagina, pain in the bladder during urination, and urinary incontinence appear. Skin and hair become dry (the latter fall out), nails become brittle, wrinkles are added.

Late menopause

It can lead to metabolic disorders. Atherosclerosis, cardiovascular disease, postmenopausal osteoporosis, Alzheimer's disease develop. But angina pectoris, myocardial infarction, cerebrovascular accident are found in women of reproductive age 3 times less than in men.

After menopause, the risk of getting sick is evened out. This happens more often with excess cholesterol and high blood pressure, overweight and poor nutrition with a high consumption of animal fats, as well as a lack of vitamins. During late menopause, there is a high probability of osteoporosis in those who have reduced bone mass, especially brittle bones.

Representatives of the European race fall into a risk group - graceful, of small stature, with thin fair skin, as a rule, smokers. Menstruation started late (after 17 years) and stopped early (up to 50 years). The menstrual cycle, infertility at a young age, or, conversely, a large number of births and prolonged lactation (more than 6 months) were disrupted. In childhood, they consumed little dairy products, and later their body experienced a chronic lack of calcium. They did not move much, took alcohol in excess, suffered from various chronic diseases, and their relatives had fractures in the past.

Those who have a late postmenopausal period, to improve their well-being, I advise:

regular exercise and swimming, this contributes to good blood supply to the pelvic organs, positively affects the condition of the bladder, genitals, bone system;
it is very important to prevent constipation, monitor the function of the large intestine;
eliminate possible sources of irritation of the external genitalia: wear underwear only from natural tissues, do not use soap when washing, do not use harsh fragrances when taking a bath, do not perform hygienic procedures with very hot water;
avoid falls;
it is important to wear low-heeled shoes;
take active forms of vitamin D3 (400-800 mg per day) if there are risk factors for osteoporosis.

Keep hormones normal

Breakfast: oatmeal with berries, toast from whole grain bread, a glass of unsweetened fruit juice. Lunch: lean chicken or fish with salad, vegetables and whole grain bread. Dinner: pasta, fried fish with rice and curry; or baked potatoes with tuna; or grilled veal liver; or omelet with cheese; or a salad of beans and steamed vegetables, and for dessert - fresh fruits, low-fat natural yogurt or ice cream.

Bean Salad. Mix several types of beans (one tablespoon each color). Add finely chopped onions and coriander. Season with salt, pepper, drizzle with olive oil and lemon juice. It turns out 2 servings, the caloric content of each 88 kcal.

The main diet for menopause in women

Animal fats are known to contain saturated fatty acids, which increase triglycerides and bad cholesterol. Vegetable products (avocados, nuts, seeds, vegetable oils) contain poly- and monounsaturated fatty acids, which, on the contrary, reduce the level of harmful elements. From this it follows that the diet should be based on vegetable fats (but it’s not worth it to get involved too much).

With menopause, it is recommended to reduce the consumption of meat. Sausages and offal are not useful during this period. Please note: before cooking meat products, you should remove all visible fat (you need to cook the bird without skin). The restriction is imposed on the eggs (especially on the yolks).
During this period, a special role is given to dairy products: low-fat milk, granular cottage cheese, hard cheese, kefir, fermented baked milk, etc. The main condition is to control the fat content in the products.
With menopause, it is useful to eat fish and seafood. Do not forget about cereals (polished rice and semolina are not welcome, although no one forces them to be excluded from the diet). Seeds and nuts are excellent sources of high-grade protein, unsaturated fats, minerals and vitamins.
It is recommended to include bran as a dietary supplement (this valuable product is a source of dietary fiber and B vitamins). Thanks to bran, you can not be afraid of constipation.
With menopause, doctors recommend limiting salt intake to minimize the risk of developing hypertension and swelling. You can season food with herbs and soy sauce.
Vitamins and minerals are catalysts of metabolic processes, so during menopause it is worth increasing the consumption of products containing them. Greens and brightly colored vegetables, fruits and berries (bell peppers, red cabbage, carrots, black currants, cherries, etc.) benefit.

All these measures together will help you to prolong youth and to preserve beauty and femininity for a long time. Removing menopause is not only possible, but also necessary, because it allows you to improve the quality of life and extend it.

The concept of “age” can be considered from various aspects: from the point of view of the chronology of events, biological processes of the body, social formation and psychological development.

Age covers the whole life path. Its countdown begins from birth and ends with physiological death. Age shows from birth to a specific event in a person’s life.

Birth, adulthood, development, old age are all human lives, of which the entire earthly path consists. Having been born, a man began his first stage, and then, over time, all of them will pass sequentially.

Classification of age periods in terms of biology

A single classification does not exist, at different times it was compiled differently. Differentiation of periods is associated with a certain age, when significant changes in the human body occur.

Human lives are periods between key “points”.

Passport or chronological age may not coincide with the biological. It is from the latter that one can judge how he will do his job, what kind of loads his body can withstand. Biological age can either lag behind the passport or be ahead of it.

Consider the classification of life periods, which is based on the concept of age on the basis of physiological changes in the body:

Age periods

age		period
0-4 weeks		newborn
4 weeks - 1 year		chest
1-3 years		early childhood
3-7 years old		preschool
7-10 / 12 years old		primary school
girls: 10-17 / 18 years old		teenage
boys: 12-17 / 18 years old
young men	17-21 year	youthful
girls	16-20 years old
men	21-35 years old	adulthood, 1 period
women	20-35 years old
men	35-60 years old	adulthood, 2 period
women	35-55 years old
55 / 60-75 years		elderly age
75-90		senile age
90 years and more		centenarians

The views of scientists on the age periods of human life

Depending on the era and country, scientists and philosophers proposed various criteria for gradation of the main stages of life.

For instance:

Chinese scientists divided human life into 7 phases. “Wanted,” for example, was the age of 60 to 70 years. This is a period of development of spirituality and wisdom of man.
The ancient Greek scientist Pythagoras identified the stages of human life with the seasons. Each lasted 20 years.
The ideas of Hippocrates became fundamental for the further determination of periods of life. He singled out 10, each 7 years long, starting from birth.

The periods of life according to Pythagoras

The ancient philosopher Pythagoras, considering the stages of human being, identified them with the seasons. He identified four of them:

Spring is the beginning and development of life, from birth to 20 years.
Summer is youth, from 20 to 40 years old.
Autumn is the heyday of 40 to 60 years.
Winter is fading, from 60 to 80 years.

The periods according to Pythagoras had a duration of exactly 20 years. Pythagoras believed that everything on Earth is measured by numbers, to which he treated not only as mathematical symbols, but also endowed them with a kind of magical meaning. Numbers also allowed him to determine the characteristics of the cosmic order.

Pythagoras also applied the concept of “foursome” to age periods, because he compared them with eternal, unchanging natural phenomena, for example, elements.

The periods of human life (according to Pythagoras) and their advantages are based on the doctrine of the idea of \u200b\u200beternal return. Life is eternal, like successive seasons, and man - a piece of nature, lives and develops according to its laws.

The concept of "seasons" according to Pythagoras

Identifying the age intervals of a person’s life with the seasons, Pythagoras focused on the fact that:

Spring is the time of the beginning, the birth of life. The child develops, with pleasure absorbing new knowledge. He is interested in everything, but so far everything is happening as a game. The baby is blooming.
Summer is a period of growing up. A man is blooming, he is attracted by everything new, still unknown. Continuing to flourish, a person does not lose his childish fun.
Autumn - a man has become an adult, balanced, past gaiety has given way to confidence and leisurely.
Winter is a period of reflection and debriefing. Man has gone most of the way and is now considering the results of his life.

The main periods of the earthly journey of people

Considering the existence of the individual, we can distinguish the main periods of human life:

youth;
adulthood;
old age.

At each stage, a person acquires something new, revises his values, changes his social status in society.

The basis of existence is periods of human life. The features of each of them are associated with growing up, changes in the environment, state of mind.

Features of the main stages of the existence of personality

The periods of a person’s life have their own characteristics: each stage supplements the previous one, brings with it something new, something that has not yet happened in life.

Maximism is inherent in youth: the dawn of mental, creative abilities occurs, the basic physiological processes of growing up are completed, the appearance and well-being are improving. At this age, the system is installed, time begins to be appreciated, self-control rises, and others are reassessed. A person determines the direction of his life.

Having reached the threshold of maturity, a person has already reached certain heights. In the professional field, he occupies a stable position. This period coincides with the strengthening and maximum development of social status, decisions are made deliberately, a person does not avoid responsibility, values \u200b\u200btoday, can forgive mistakes made to himself and others, realistically evaluates himself and others. This is the age of achievement, conquering peaks and getting maximum opportunities for their development.

Old age is more associated with losses than with acquisitions. A person finishes his labor activity, his social environment changes, inevitable physiological changes appear. However, a person can still engage in self-development, in most cases this happens more on the spiritual level, on the development of the inner world.

Critical points

The most important periods of a person’s life are associated with changes in the body. They can also be called critical: the hormonal background changes, due to which changes in mood occur, irritability, nervousness appear.

Psychologist E. Erickson identifies 8 crisis periods of human life:

Teenage years.
Man's entry into adulthood is thirty years old.
Transition to the fourth dozen.
Fortieth anniversary.
The middle of life is 45 years.
Fiftieth anniversary.
Fifty-fifth anniversary.
Fifty-sixth birthday.

Confident overcoming of "critical points"

Overcoming each of the periods presented, a person goes to a new stage of development, while conquering the difficulties that have arisen in his way, and strives to conquer new heights of his life.

In the child he breaks away from his parents and tries to independently find his own direction in life.

In the third ten, people are revising their principles, changing their views on the environment.

Approaching the fourth ten, people try to gain a foothold in life, climb the career ladder, and begin to think more rationally.

In the middle of life, a person begins to wonder whether he lives correctly. There is a desire to do something that will leave a memory of him. There is disappointment and fear for my life.

At 50, a slowdown in physiological processes affects health, age-related changes occur. However, a person has already correctly set life priorities, his nervous system works stably.

At age 55, wisdom appears, a person enjoys life.

At 56, a person thinks more about the spiritual side of his life, develops his inner world.

Doctors say that if one is prepared and aware of critical periods of life, then overcoming them will happen calmly and painlessly.

Conclusion

A person decides by what criteria he shares his life periods, and what he puts in the concept of "age." It could be:

A purely external attraction that a person seeks to extend in all available ways. And considers himself young, as long as appearance allows.
The division of life into "youth" and "end of youth." The first period lasts while there is an opportunity to live without obligations, problems, responsibility, the second - when problems arise, life difficulties.
Physiological changes in the body. A person clearly follows the changes and identifies his age with them.
The concept of age is associated with a state of mind and consciousness. Man measures his age with a state of mind and inner freedom.

As long as a person’s life is filled with meaning, a desire to learn something new, and all this is organically combined with the wisdom and spiritual wealth of the inner world, a person will be forever young, despite the weakening of the physical capabilities of his body.

When we feel bad, there is some kind of crisis in life, then we seek salvation everywhere and everywhere. But there is no life without crises, therefore all efforts must be put into overcoming them, and not to trying to dodge.

Many people at such moments are tormented by one thought: bad luck only haunts me, all the problems are in me, the loser in life. From such experiences, it becomes even more difficult to get out of stress.

Psychologists say that not a single person can pass age-related crises, although they are different for everyone, depending on their nature, attitude, lifestyle, etc. To some extent, it helps to make life easier during periods of crisis. happens not only with you, but also with other people too. Many have heard about a midlife crisis, about a transitional period in children, but we know much less about other age-related crises.

Problems in people arise with his birth. Psychologists have compiled a list of age-related crises starting in the first year of a child’s life. It is especially important to know about childhood crises that parents can and should help their child overcome. After all, it is precisely in childhood that the outlook on life, the ability to confront difficulties, responsibility, stamina and much more is formed, which form the basis of the human character. It depends on how a child will perceive himself in childhood, what kind of person he will grow up.

Many will incredulously object: they say, what kind of crises can babies have ?! This is the main parental mistake - the lack of understanding of what happens as you grow up with your child, what worries him, how he perceives the world around him and those people who are next to him, including his parents.

What crises await the child? In the first year of life, a small person makes a decision whether this world is worth trust, and those around him are worth love. He develops a general attitude towards the world. At three years stubbornness is manifested, because the child begins to become aware of himself as a person with his desires and requirements.

Age - 7 years - is considered the time of birth of the child’s social “I”. It is at this age that he either begins to feel himself the crown of the universe, or acquires an inferiority complex. At this age, he goes to school, that is, leaves the family where he is loved, protected, protected, into the world of other people. How prepared he is, how your child adapts in this world, is up to you.

At 12-14 years old, the child is already a teenager. He begins to fight for independence, for his rights, for the opportunity to make his own decisions. In addition, at this age, for the first time, he fully realizes his belonging to one or another sex.

When it turns 18-20 years old, the child has a final separation from childhood. Now the age crisis is due to the fact that there is a desire for independence, the beginning of the struggle for a better place in life.

What age crises await adults? When the student’s time ends, the first steps in his career are made, the age of maturity begins at the age of 27-29, and a person has to combine dreams and reality. During this period, a person usually spends the last cardinal changes in work and personal life.

At the age of 35-37, a midlife crisis begins, when a person questions everything that has been achieved, and a reassessment of values \u200b\u200btakes place. Midlife crisis is usually more difficult for men to endure. Perceiving their age as critical, they try to make an attempt to "jump into the last carriage" of the outgoing youth, and this often brings problems to family relationships. And how the family will survive this crisis largely depends on the woman, her behavior, wisdom and patience.

53-55 years old - crisis of pre-retirement age. A person is frightened by a change in social status. Many women worry about losing their former attractiveness. Keeping youth in their souls, they cannot bring their physical age together with their psychological age. At this age, diseases begin, and the deterioration of the physical condition, and a decrease in strength and ability, respond very hard to the psyche. Well, if a friendly family is preserved, successful happy children, there are grandchildren, then the life lived does not seem in vain. And if loneliness?

The crisis of 65-67 years is a preparation for death, or the “nodular period" when a person collects everything he has achieved into a bundle, as if in two worlds - here and there, gaining great freedom in preferences, creativity, love ...

Rarely does anyone live to be 100 years old. At this age, a person feels tired of life, a feeling of emptiness, he has a desire to die ...

All people experience age-related crises in different ways. Someone does not notice them, someone experiences especially hard, making mistakes, suffering and suffering. Epicurus once said: “Always work. Always love. Love your wife and children more than yourself. Do not expect gratitude from people and do not be upset if you are not thanked. Admonition instead of hatred, smile instead of contempt. Always have a new book in the library, a full bottle in the cellar, and a fresh flower in the garden. ” No matter what happens in our life, no matter what crises shake it, we live, move forward, and it depends on us to a great extent whether we enjoy life or not. Let's try to be happy?