Presentation, violence. Violence in the family - the actual problem of modern society. Project on the subject of domestic violence

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From the history of children killed in ritual purposes: it was believed that the killed child could help fruitless women to cope with diseases, to ensure health and youth; They were buried under the foundation of the building to make it stronger; Children were sold and bought.

Violence is coercion, invalo, the effect is shy, offensive, illegal, self-width. Under household or family violence, they understand a certain system of behavior of one family member in relation to another (other), which is aimed at preserving power, control and suggestion of fear. The domestic violence is the form of relations between close people, when one oppresses another or causes him any damage. There is another definition: under family violence, systematic aggressive and hostile actions in relation to family members, with the result that the subject of violence may be harmful, injury, humiliation or sometimes death. Violence is performed in the teenage medium.

The purpose of violence, as a rule, is to conquer certain rights and privileges, as well as domination and control over man by insulting, intimidation, blackmail, etc. Domestic violence can have a different pattern of orientation: from her husband in relation to his wife; from his wife in relation to her husband; from one or both parents in relation to children; from the side of the older children in relation to the younger; by adult children and grandchildren in relation to parents or elderly relatives; From the side of the family members in relation to others.

Research has been established that: violence in one form or another is performed in every fourth Russian family; annually about 2 million children under the age of 14 beaten by their parents; For 10% of these children, death becomes the outcome, and for 2 thousand- suicide; More than 50 thousand children leave the house during the year, escaped from their own parents, and 25 thousand minors are wanted.

Protection of children by the state of the Convention on the Rights of the Child; Law "On the basics of the system of prevention of neglect and offenses of minors"; zkon "on the basic guarantees of the rights of the child in the Russian Federation"; A group of deputies contributed a bill to the State Duma, providing for the strengthening of guarantees of children's rights to proper spiritual and moral education, as well as responsibility for the ill-treatment of minors.

In addition, the authors of the bill pay attention to the fact that in now the current legislation provides for a more severe punishment for the ill-treatment of animals - deprivation of freedom for up to two years than for the ill-treatment of minors - only restriction of freedom for up to three years. For cruel treatment of minors is invited to introduce criminal liability - imprisonment of up to three years.

The consequences of cruel treatment of children in the family care in religious sects; associations into informal groups with criminal and fascist focus; aggressive, criminal behavior of children; The children who escaped from the house die from hunger and cold, become victims of other children who also escaped from domestic violence, etc.

Neglecting neglect of the main needs of the child (moral cruelty) is the absence of parents or persons who replace them, elementary care for him, as well as the unfair fulfillment of duties to raise the child, as a result of which his health and development are violated.

Sexual violence against children Sexual violence against children American researchers are defined as any sexual experience between the child up to 16 years old (according to individual sources - up to 18 years old) and man who is older for at least 5 years. This type of violence is characterized by either both involvement of dependent, mentally and physiologically immature children and adolescents in sexual actions that violate the public chambers of family roles that they still cannot fully understand and are not able to give meaningful consent. Sexual violence is considered as a variant of particularly cruel treatment of children.

Psychological violence emotional (psychological) violence is a single or chronic mental impact on a child or his rejection on the part of parents and other adults, as a result of which the child violates emotional development, behavior and ability to socialization.

The psychological violence includes threats to the child who are manifested in verbal form without the use of physical strength; insult and humiliation of his dignity; open rejection and constant criticism; deprivation of a child with the necessary stimulation, ignoring its basic needs in a safe environment, parental love; presentation to the child of excessive requirements that do not correspond to its age or capabilities; Single rude mental impact, which caused a psychic injury in a child; deliberate isolation of a child, deprivation of its social contacts; Involving a child or encouraging to antisocial or destructive behavior (alcoholism, drug addiction, etc.).

Causes of violence lying in the family itself: Material difficulties; the presence in the unemployed family; unresolved housing problem; alcoholism and drunkenness among family members; Availability of drug addicts; incomplete family; stepfather or stepmother in the family; disabled child or health problems; unwanted child; difficult child; removing many moral prohibitions; family conflicts; self-affirmation due to the weak; The cult of cruelty, promoted in society.

Children are the main gift for the world, with them wonderful earth painting. Everyone understands, they are taken for all the best with them the human lives often weak, inept their hands, but there is no time to think the guys about boredom. In the movements, concerns, their time passes, good luck to the zealous over the years comes. In childhood, dreams bloom, adults often do not know about it. It is necessary to explain the kids to the kids, it is necessary to teach them a lot. The world will be better on our planet, if all children will be happy! Viktor Pavlov

Violence the use of force or a different kind of threats in relation to certain social actors or their ownership for the purpose of intimidation and coercion to certain actions

About 40% of all murders and grave injuries in Russia occur in the family according to the Ministry of Internal Affairs for 2007, every 2 minutes (!) In Russia, her husband beats his wife, and every hour the husband kills his wife according to the UN, in Russia annually ( !) Pervents from the hands of husbands and partners 14,000 women 75% of her husbands at least once hit their wife

Flying from domestic violence, annually 50,000 children go out of the house, and 2,000 children raise accounts with life every seventh Russian woman is afraid of her husband, waiting for him a "sudden breakdown" of 57% of women systematically experiencing violence in the form of insults, humiliations, bullying 30% Women are forced to spare money from her husband for every trifle and report for buying about 70% of children in families, where the violence of mother is practiced, experience the same violence

Criteria of violence intentional action asymmetry of the forces violation of human rights Action that causes physical pain and mental suffering to victim of violence

Features of violence escalation isolation cyclicity repeatability

Types of violence Psychological Economic Sexual use of physical strength or tools for harm to another person Total control over another person Permanent criticism Blackmail Inulture Isolation Victims Refusal access to livelihoods Consignment of revenues of family money Solificate independent decision of most financial issues ) Sexual harassment coercion

Stage 1 - Athletic of Voltage Cyclicity of Violence 1979 - Leonor Walker, Book "Woman Unsigned to Violence"

Stage 2 - Act Violence Cyclicity Violence

Stage 3 - "Honeymoon" Cyclicity of violence

Cyclic of violence

Cyclic of violence

Cyclic of violence

Violation of the idea of \u200b\u200byourself and about the world Victimization (injury) I level

I level Loss of sense of safety Feeling yourself with a small child Desire to isolate yourself from the environment The feeling of powerless anger Victimization (injuries)

Violation of the idea of \u200b\u200byourself and the world I Level II Level Secondary Injumation Victimization (injury)

II level \u003d secondary trauma doubt the thought that she is a victim of violence denial or a decrease in the testing of victims in violence refusal to help indifference in relation to the problems of domestic violence Victimization (injury)

Adoption of the identity of the victim of violence violation of the presentation of themselves and the world I Level II Level III Level Secondary injury Victimization (injury)

III Level Thinking about himself as a doomed to violence accusation of himself throughout the doubt of all personal difficulties, the creation of a victim for the victim of the philosophy of life is not recognized by the victims of the victimization (injury)

Alcoholism Drug Addiction Physical Defense Wondering Defense Minimize Contacts With Ritch Threat Strategy Victims of Violence Escape P

Society Family Partner Friends Wattime Stereotypes and Prejudices related to domestic violence

Myth: Only Drinking Men beat wives

Fact: Alcohol is not the cause of violence Alcohol can only be a concomitant reason when the situation of violence already exists alcohol can become both convenient excuses of violence. Some women convince themselves that it would never have happened if the man had a sober

Home domestic violence is typically only for families of workers myth:

The profession and business successes of women do not affect the behavior of offenders. Beating women making a brilliant career, and housekeepers. These studies have shown that more than half of women have higher and incomplete higher education. Fact:

Probably, everything is not so bad, otherwise women would not have remained with such men myth:

I am ashamed to tell a stranger about what happened is afraid of condemnation from others. Some believe that children should grow in a family where there are both parents some women are afraid to stay at all without money (economic dependence) fear that the offender will become more aggressive nowhere to go (housing problems):

With his behavior, women themselves suggest themselves to be beaten - they deserve to beat the myth:

None of the human being deserves the offender will always find an excuse for his actions - no matter how the victim behaved. Fact:

Silence will not be seriously myth:

Even a single fact of violence brings pain and grief remains a humiliating and offensive event in a person's life becomes a serious psychological trauma fact:

Why does a woman stay with the offender? It is experiencing a real fear of the escalation of violence from previous experience The victim often knows that as soon as she is trying to take advantage of anyone, the intensity of violence increases the insulation supports her faith in his omnipotence considers himself to be guilty throughout

It believes that she will not believe - the woman can be confident that only she turned out to be in such a difficult situation and depending on the rapist disease, the loneliness of the faith in traditional values, such as the irrevomination of the marriage - at any cost you need to save the family why a woman Remains with the offender?

Faith in the partner's promises that he really will change - the cycles of violence love for a partner and faith that if he leaves him, then something terrible confidence will happen that no one is able to help her or maybe in the past she mentioned her problem However, no one helped her and not the thought of ET about himself as a victim of violence why a woman remains with a bite?

General characteristics of women - victims of violence Low self-esteem; Commitment to traditional ideas about the family, the role of women in the family and society, "female destination"; Assigning responsibility for the actions of the offender; The feeling of guilt and the denial of the feelings of anger, which they experience in relation to the offender;

General characteristics of women - victims of violence pronounced reactions to stress and psycho-physiological complaints; Faith in the fact that sexual relationships can stabilize the relationship as a whole; Feeling helplessness and disbelief in the fact that someone can help them; Psychological dependence on the partner

Psychological characteristic of rapist low self-esteem; Low tolerance for frustration; The desire of power and control over another person; Emotional instability (inability to adequately cope with strong emotions); Probability of abuse of alcohol or drugs; Availability in the past traumatic events (he himself was a victim or witness of violence)

The consequences of domestic violence collapses self-confidence declining self-confidence, an irresponsible attitude towards his life is developing, and in parallel responsibility (self-evidence) for the violent behavior of the partner, for his inclination to offensive, violent behavior

The consequences of domestic violence develops anxiety formed by nosogenic neurosis (loss of life meaning) is lost by realistic perception of the situation, the surrounding reality is formed by a distorted "portrait" of a partner and distorted perception of oneself and the senses of decisions regarding his actions, satisfying the various needs are made depending on the partner reactions.

The consequences of domestic violence assessment of the actions of the surrounding people occur in accordance with the evaluations of the partner there is a desire to "save" a partner when he falls into an unpleasant or difficult situation, while he is often attended by happily excitement as the waiting for mitigation of relations as a response for care (which is really never not happening)

The consequences for children undergoing male violence 1) immediately after violence, they experience a state of injury; 2) the course of normal processes of child development changes; 3) they live in fear for themselves and for their mothers and suffer from other problems related to stress; 4) their role models are brutal men; 5) An further adult life can demonstrate a higher risk of problems such as physical and mental problems, chemical addiction, problems in relationships, including violence and ill-treatment of children, involvement in criminal activities. Materials from Barnett Book (Barnett), Miller-Perrina (Miller-Perrin) and Perrin (Perrin) "Family violence for life"

first Conversation Intervention Police First Conversation with Specialist Plan, Providing Used Sacrificment Family Family Direction in Help Help Help Help Help Help Help Help Medical Assistance Therapy Group Mutual Assistance Standing Consulting Assistance Plan

Never blame victim

For violence always answers the rapist

Recommended literature Moskalenko V.D. Dependence: Family disease - M.: Pen SE, 2009 Savina E.A. Return Kai - M.: Publishing House Adris, 2006 Savina E.A. "I love him ..." -M.: Publishing house Adris, 2008 Johnson V. Method of belief. How to help a drug addict or an alcoholic make a decision - M.: IIO, V. Skachev, 2007 Bitty M. Alcoholic in the family, or overcoming telependency - M., "Physical Education and Sport", 1997 Smith W. Alcoholics Grandchildren: problems of interdependence in Family - M., Enlightenment, 1991 Emelyanova E.V. Crisis in co-dependent relationship. The principles and algorithms of counseling. - SPb, speech, 2004 Emelyanova E.V. How to communicate with a drunken husband. Practical advice to women - SPb, speech, 2008 Emelyanova E.V. Women in trouble. The program of work with the victims of domestic violence "Dignity of Love" - \u200b\u200bSPb. Speech, 2008.

These books can be ordered by email: http://kseniya-steps.ucoz.ru/

Domestic violence: types, forms, consequences Violence is one of the most acute and common social problems. Violent actions are made specifically and aimed at achieving a certain goal; damage (physical, moral, material) to another person; violates the rights and freedoms of this person; Make it impossible to effectively self-defense of victims from violence (one who commits violence, in most cases has advantages) scientific research has been established that: violence in one form or another is performed in each fourth Ukrainian family; annually about 2 million children under the age of 14 beaten by their parents; For 10% of these children, death becomes the outcome, and for 2 thousand calamine; More than 50 thousand children leave the house during the year, escaped from their own parents, and 25 thousand minors are wanted. In 2008, 1914 children died from ill-treatment of children, 2330 children were crippled; About 10 thousand parents are listed by the courts of parental rights and more than 2.5 thousand children are closed from parents without such a deprivation, since finding a child in the family is a threat to his life and health. In 80% of cases, children fall into shelters and orphanages due to non-fulfillment by their direct duties on education, which creates a real threat to their lives and health. The main reason for the ill-treatment of children is an internal aggressiveness of an emotional state that occurs as a reaction to the experience of the overwhelming of some barriers or the unavailability of something desired. Types of violence against children in the family physical violence; disregard; psychological ill-treatment; Sexual violence. Physical violence physical violence physical violence is deliberate injury and / or damage to the child who cause serious (requiring medical care) violations of physical, mental health, development in development. Physical abuse as well as involvement of a child into alcohol, drugs, toxic substances. Physical abuse of a child can make parents, persons who replace them, or other adults. Most often this happens in families, where: I am convinced that the physical punishment is the method of choosing to raise children; Parents (or one of them) are alcoholics, drug addicts, toxicomicians; Parents (or one of them) have mental illness; Disrupted emotional and psychological climate (frequent quarrels, scandals, lack of respect for each other); Parents are in a state of stress due to the death of loved ones, illness, loss of work, economic crisis, etc. ; Parents impose excessive requirements for children who are inappropriate for their age and level of development; Children have features: presence in history, the presence of somatic or mental diseases; They are hyperactive, nonsense. Physical abuse is manifested as: strikes on the face; shaking, push; Pinkish, suffocation, kicks; conclusion in the locked room where they are held by force; beating with a belt, ropes; Applying injections with heavy objects, even a knife. Psychological violence psychological (emotional) violence - permanent or periodic verbal insults of a child, a threat from parents, guardians, teachers, humiliation of his human dignity, the accusation of what he is not to blame, a demonstration of dislike, hatred for a child, permanent lies, deception Child. The psychological violence includes: threats to the child who are manifested in verbal form without the use of physical strength; insult and humiliation of his dignity; open rejection and constant criticism; deprivation of a child with the necessary stimulation, ignoring its basic needs in a safe environment, parental love; presentation to the child of excessive requirements that do not correspond to its age or capabilities; Single rude mental impact, which caused a psychic injury in a child; deliberate isolation of a child, deprivation of its social contacts; Involving a child or encouraging to antisocial or destructive behavior (alcoholism, drug addiction, etc.). Features of children undergoing psychological (emotional) violence: Mental Delay; the inability to concentrate, poor performance; low self-esteem; Emotional disorders in the form of aggression, anger (often facing themselves), an depressed state; excessive need for attention; depression, suicide attempts; Inability to communicate with peers (incorrect behavior, excessive fasciance or aggressiveness); False, theft, deviant (or "deviating", asocial) behavior; Nervous and psychosomatic diseases: neurosis, enuresis, ticks, sleep disorders, disorders of appetite, obesity, skin diseases, asthma, etc.). Features of the behavior of adults who make emotional violence: do not comfort the child when he needs this; publicly insulting, the fermented, humiliate, ridicule the child; Compared with other children not in its favor, it is constantly supercritical to it; accused him of all his failures, make a "scapegoat" from the child, etc. Neglecting neglect of the basic needs of the child (moral cruelty) is the absence of parents or persons who replace them, elementary care for it, as well as the unfair fulfillment of responsibilities for the education of the child, as a result of which his health and development are violated. Most often neglect the basic needs of children parents or persons who replace them: alcoholics, drug addicts; Persons with mental disorders; young parents who do not have experience and skills of parenthood; with low socioeconomic levels of living; having chronic diseases, disability, mental backwardness; having suffered a cruel appeal in childhood; Socially isolated. The consequences of cruel treatment of children in the family care in religious sects; associations into informal groups with criminal and fascist focus; aggressive, criminal behavior of children; The children who escaped from home die from hunger and cold, become victims of other children who also escaped from domestic violence and others. Sexual violence of sexual violence (seduction) is the use of a child with an adult or another child to meet the sexual need or getting a chaser, attracting a child to prostitution , porn business. Sexual abuse is most often happening in families, where: Patriarchal-authoritarian way; Bad relationships of a child with parents, especially with her mother; conflict relationships between parents; The mother of the child is overly busy at work; The child lived for a long time without his native father; Instead of native father - stepfather or mother's humor; Mother has a chronic disease or disability and a long time lies in the hospital; Parents (or one of them) are alcoholics, drug addicts, toxicomicians; Parents (or one of them) have mental illness; Mother in childhood was subjected to sexual violence, etc. Homemade violence is repeated with increasing cycle frequency: physical, verbal, spiritual and economic insult in order to control, intimidation, suggestion of feeling of fear. Economic violence: refusal to the content of children, concealment of income, the waste of family money, independent adoption of most financial decisions - this may manifest itself, for example, in the purchase of products, the needs of children or wives are not taken into account, and as a result, children may not get the necessary for them age nutrition; Wife, making purchases, must report to checks, etc. How does violence manifest? Intimidation and threats - the suggestion of fear of cry, gestures, faithful; Threats of physical punishment by militia, special school, God; manifestation of violence over animals; Threats to throw a child or take it, deprive money and others. 2. Isolation - constant control of what a woman or a child do, with whom they are friends, are encountered, talking; ban on communication with loved ones, visiting spectacular events, etc. 3. Physical punishment - beating, slapper, torture, drawing for hair, cigarette, etc. 4. Emotional (mental) violence - not only intimidation, threats, isolation, but also humiliation of self-esteem and honor, verbal insults, rudeness; The suggestion of the thought is that the child is the worst, and the woman is a bad mother or wife, humiliation in the presence of other people; Constant criticism to a child or woman, etc. Causes of violence: - material difficulties; the presence in the unemployed family; unresolved housing problem; alcoholism and drunkenness among family members; Availability of drug addicts; incomplete family; stepfather or stepmother in the family; disabled child or health problems; unwanted child; difficult child; removing many moral prohibitions; family conflicts; self-affirmation due to the weak; The cult of cruelty, promoted in society. The consequences of family violence The child learns violence; The child becomes anxious; The child is not sure that he loves him in the family; Where to seek help? Department of Family and Youth Affairs. Address: Lenin Ave. 70. Tel. 54-17-92 2. Service for children of Ilyichevsky district administration. Address: Metallurgists 193.Tell.: 47-30-53 3. Internal affairs bodies. Tel 102 4. Social services centers for family, children and young people. 5. - Mariupol City Center for Social Services for Family, Children and Youth. Address: Bul. Khmelnitsky, 24-A.Tel.: 33-52-25 6. - Ilyichevsky district center of social services for family, children and young people. Address: ul. Karpinsky, 56. Tel.: 4731-03 7. - Primorsky District Center for Social Services for Family, Children and Youth. Address: Builders Ave., 85-a. Tel.: 54-37-83. 8. - Ordzhonikidze district Center for social services for family, children and young people. Address: per. Riga, 40. Tel.: 24-71-51 9. - Zhovnevysky district center of social services for family, children and young people. Address: Bul. Khmelnitsky, 24-a. Tel.: 54-38-54 10. 5) Tel. Trust: 24-99-99 / 23-99-99 1.